about done with single males

Well, thank goodness for volunteers! ;-)

HungVet, as someone who has played as a single for about half the time I've been doing this, I'm well aware of couples who want you fulfill a fantasy and leave. I try to avoid them, because they are clear in their disdain and/or impersonal approach and that's not my ideal for a satisfying sexual experience. I suspect single men run into that even more and I continue to think that's driven by the needs of the other man. I can't say I totally understand it, but some of it clearly seems to be based in competition and probably has a biological component.

Anyway, at least for me, sex is great, but I am really picky about what couples bring into interactions with me. Which is why I mostly play with halves of couples rather than couples.

The issue of performance and the different treatment is partly mechanical. If men can't perform, it's kind of unsatisfying. A woman who can't get aroused has the option of faking it.

Re:Male performance

I do find Viagra makes a significant difference for me. It's not for everyone because a common side effect is a headache. A boner with a headache is kind of like the proverbial tits on a bull ;-)

I have found a generic source that requires no prescription where it winds up being less than $0.50 a dose. I get 100 mg pills and take half and it's under $1/plll. Cheap insurance to help insure everyone has a good time.

Timing helps. For me, I take one about an hour before I expect to play and the claim is that they last 4-6 hours, though I always wake up with morning wood the day after taking one. I'm usually good for a couple hours of play with little to no down time.

It does NOT give you an erection. It just makes it easier to get hard and keep it that way. One time recently I accidentally took both halves. All I did was brush up against the kitchen island counter and it was so hard it was literally popping out the top of my pants. Luckily it was at a party at our house and I got a volunteer to do something about that...lol

Goodgolly

I would be lying to say that I don’t at times. I’ve experienced many scenarios with couples, and that sentiment is clear. Single males are there to perform. Perform well and be a gentleman, and you’re in good standing.

I don’t see myself as stunt cock, but that’s what most couples are looking for. If you read most couples’ profile, they aren’t looking to create friendships with single males, they are looking for a guy to please the wife. That’s the nature of the lifestyle. Some want the boyfriend experience and some just want the occasional/regular basis “fun”.

Read the forums. A man who can’t perform is no good in the lifestyle. You never hear of discussions women who can’t please or can’t ger aroused as the topic of discussion.

Some women prefer women because of the hassle it is for men to get it up, get it hard and keep it up.

Just saying.

HV

I can take teasing but I'm confident lol

Bryisfun, I solemnly swear I was just teasing. Except for the part about having to change your name. ;-)

HungVet, I have never in my life thought of another human as a stunt cock and I really hope you don't see yourself or any other man that way.

Goodgollymolly

Damn that’s cold. True! But cold.

If you can’t perform or can’t facilitate foreplay as you get “right”, don’t show up.
As a single male, your stunt cock. You’re simply a male perform.

If you can't perform under pressure, you are definitely on the wrong site... ;-)

Lol no pressure at all. All about timing.

Not the twirly camera. That's just cruel.

Good luck, Bryisfun. If you don't follow up and bring your A game, you're going to have to change your name. ;-)

Cue Martin Lawrence and Michael Bay's twirly camera.....

See, now it’s all a game......

Shit’s gonna have to get real up in here soon.

~Allen

Oh boy game on lol

Bryisfun, you have to prove it, then. I'll report back to the group here about if you're for real.

Not me I'm laid back and fun : )

lol, so serious. :-)

Meaning sucks that there are people who need blocked

I have blocked someone before and said, “Oops! I didn’t mean to do that. Oh well.”

:-D

~Allen

Have you ever blocked someone and said, “well that sucked.”?

~Allen

Blocking sucks but get you have to sometimes

BLOCK NCal. Go to his profile and touch the word BLOCK and you will not have to see his posts ever again. And he can't read yours. Some people enjoy reading his stupid comments and insulting him. I don't enjoy reading what idiots have to say.

The Edgewater Hotel in 1988 was sexual paradise, the only place you had to wear clothing and not sex was allowed was in the night club. It was wild free love confident fit sexual women. great place to be young and fit, all those old thirty year old women couldn't not get enough of my body.

Then there was the original Barry and Shells, what fun!!!

IN ACCORDANCE WITH THE PROPHECY

I had sexual paradise for a while and i want that back. Plain and simple. Single men ruin that sexual paradise.

Molly

Yes!!!! You got it. An old man giving out unwanted items and information because he feels that his way is best for everyone else.

It was a stretch to use it, but you got the concept.

HV

Well, since they won't stop ncal from posting political crap and racist rantings in every single sub-forum, I doubt they'll do anything about this. Besides, I think they're in the middle of a panic purge, apparently without advice of competent counsel

As to why, it doesn't make any difference, because he'll keep talking regardless, and it's better to give him something to do in a confined space.

ncal, I know this is hard to believe, but women have sex with other women. Sometimes we even lose our ladylike demeanor and call it fucking. Shocking, I know.

And the answer to what woman wants to attend lifestyle events is, based on my experience this weekend, a lot of them. From what I saw, they seemed to be enjoying themselves too.