3some with a female couple

Adding to what 4_real mentioned, I seem to recall NC being one of the dryer states in terms of the lifestyle (LS) in general. You may want to see if there are any local LS parties/events. It is so much more fruitful meeting people in person versus trying to meet people online.

Also as mentioned, single, or married females with ability to play separate (SFs) are a somewhat rare commodity, and may be more so in your area. One way to find out is to do a SLS search in your area for Bi SFs. For comparisons sake, I did a search for Bi/Curious women from 25-99 years of age within 50 miles of me, and that number came out to 94 total (I'm in the NE).

If I do a search of couples using the same criteria, I get 362 total. Figure on better than half of those couples are looking for an SF, an that's even before I add single men (SMs) to the equation, and there just aren't enough SFs to go around. The ones that are out there get to cherry pick the best scenarios for themselves.

we can blame and shame,but we both know your fishing in the wrong pond,with too many fishing poles,complaining about not landing any catfish.

Kinda a dick move to catch a tude about it imo,it makes it seem like your seeking attention,far more then a quality lifestyle relationship.

we also both know,you will find much more openness in the Kink community, where you will find me at the bar,ready to buy you a beer,and not afraid to talk about anything,based in reality.

Your complaining about pizza at Macdonalds,trying to make Ronald and the Hamburgeler feel bad about not including it in your happy meals.

Yea nah

Let's not make it about race or gender but that most couples here are looking to experience this type of fun TOGETHER so you might make more of a connection if you mention that the male half of a interested couple could still be there to experience the fantasy visually. Just a thought. Good luck!

Also - you've been on SLS less than six months - online is difficult and takes time. Not everyone online is who they say they are and not everyone is here to meet and play.

I think it took us almost six months to cut through the crap and finally meet with a single gentleman for a MFM threesome after we joined SLS. At the time we were still living in Orlando and given the numbers it should have been relatively easy but it proved to be rather frustrating.

Good luck, have fun and stay safe!

What you are looking for is certainly a niche market. Probably you would do better in the north east, like NYC or Boston

It seems impossible to find a woman (without her man around) to be part of a threesome to fulfill our fantasy. I don't know if it's more of people's preferences. It's a no go for us sometimes either because I am black or my girlfriend is a transgender woman. We have be ghosted everywhere else. I don't know why this is so hard.