Asking for advice for our first attendance of a hotel take over at a event in Lansing in October are new to this and this will be our first event. We are a little bit nervous and trying to read what happens at these events. We would like to know if we don't want to swap partners at first, is that okay? We love to watch and be watched for our first time and put on a show in front of everyone in the private room. As for the rooms, if our door is open, is that a invitation for other couples to come in? It's hard to find out as far as information on do and don't, and our limits as far as touching us while having sex in front of people. We just want to be safe and enjoy ourselves and feel comfortable around others. Any input would be appreciated. We would like to meet a couple or talk to another couple that would be going to this event to guide us through the event that night.