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Allures

Allures - Tropical SEXcapade to Exotic Costa Rica - Full Takeover - Clothing Optional
Sacramento, CA
Special Event Allures and Topless Travel brings our Premier and Exclusive Lifestyle Experience to Jaco, Costa Rica for a spa resort weeklong TAKEOVER! Join us in exotic Costa Rica from May 23-May 31, 2026, for a clothing optional takeover of a resort paradise! This tropical boutique hotel features 2
Allures
Hedo ~ Cum Join Us ~ Click for Open Dates
(click For All Dates Available) Negril, Jamaica
CLICK HERE FOR RATES, DATES & EVENTS Hedonism II is a lifestyle-friendly, clothing-optional resort t
Allures
Hedo ~ Cum Join Us ~ Click for Open Dates
(click For All Dates Available) Negril, Jamaica
CLICK HERE FOR RATES, DATES & EVENTS Hedonism II is a lifestyle-friendly, clothing-optional resort t
Club Rendezvous

Newbie and Member Appreciation Night ~ Calgary
Calgary, Alberta
From $10
Newbie & Member Appreciation Night in Calgary MEET - PLAY - EXPLORE Club R Signature Events Join Clu
Club Rendezvous

Unicorn Friday ~ Calgary
Calgary, Alberta
From $30
MEET PLAY EXPLORE Unicorn Friday Calgary Lifestyle Club Night at Club Rendezvous Club R Signature Ev
Club Rendezvous

STI Screening Clinic
Calgary, Alberta
Free & Anonymous STI Testing at Club Rendezvous Calgary Were so excited to be able to offer this important service to our community in Calgary! Come get your sexy on and take care of your health by getting tested for free completely anonymous and confidential. What You Need to Know Free & Anonymous:
Club Safe Word

Getting Started with Rope: Learn Shibari Safely, Clearly, and With Confidence
Register Here If you are curious about Shibari rope-based partner practices but unsure where to begi
Club Safe Word

Rope Merry Go Round
Registration Link Here Are you new to the captivating world of shibari rope artistry, seeking to exp
Club Safe Word

Whipped Cream Monday
From $18
Welcome to our Lifestyle Play Party! For quicker check-in at a Play Party, please register for Membe
Eros Knoxville
THE REVUE & THE RUN
Knoxville, Tennessee
From $10
THE REVUE & THE RUN RUNNING OF THE BULLS Thursday | May 14, 2026 Step into the spotlight and feel th
House of Candi
Friday Fright Night Double Feature Movie Night Tempe
Tempe, AZ
FRIDAY FRIGHT NIGHT Double feature. Dab bar. Drive-in vibes (but make it indoors and naked). Doors o
House of Candi

Flirt Yoga and Dabs every Thursday Tempe HoCTwo
$13.15
Flirt Yoga and Dabs every Thursday Tempe HoCTwo This isnt your average yoga class. Its a 420-friendl
House of Candi

TUESDAY NIGHT OPEN LOUNGE at HoCTwo!
$13.15
TUESDAY NIGHT OPEN LOUNGE @ HoCTwo! Were shaking up Tuesdays with something magical. Our house submi
Lifestyle-Friendly Travel: Find the Right Stay
Lifestyle-Friendly Travel: Find the Right Stay
Columbus, OH
Traveling for lifestyle events should feel comfortable, private, and stress-free. This event is designed for couples and individuals looking for better accommodation options when attending meetups, parties, and lifestyle getaways. Finding the right place to stay can make a big difference in your ove
Lifestyle-Friendly Travel: Find the Right Stay
Lifestyle Travel Connections & Travel Request
Columbus, OH
Looking for other lifestyle travelers to connect with before your next getaway? SwingHavenBnB recently launched a new “Travel Request” feature designed to help verified members connect with other couples and travelers planning similar trips, vacations, resort stays, RV adventures, lifestyle events,
Oasis Tickets
Sex Toy Unboxing
Toronto, ON
From $15
Tonight, play for your chance to win the ultimate pleasure and witness the unboxing of a new sex toy,just aching to be enjoyed! By participating in a contest, a guest will have the chance to win a brand new Desire - Demure Dual Stimulation Wearable Vibrator - Autumn Rose from our featured sponsor St
Oasis Tickets

Tuesday Massages by Lica
Toronto, ON
Treat yourself on Tuesdays with relaxing, non-sexual massages with our new, on-site therapist Lica,
Oasis Tickets
DTF
Toronto, ON
From $15
DTF is here; we are ready to help bring fantasies to life. This night is devoted to women who enjoy the company of multiple men. At 9:30 pm, our host will facilitate a men's meeting exclusive to male guests wishing to get the most out of DTF in a safe and fun manner. Men who arrive for DTF are welco
On the Border Lifestyle Co.

Learn - You New Here?
Anywhere, OK
Absolutely, London Heres a full copy-paste HTML event page with that warm retro hippie flower-power vibe: ```html OTB Presents: You New Here? Lifestyle Newbies Class May 21st 7:30PM CST Virtual Class Find Your Groove Fresh to the lifestyle? Heading to Sooner Swing and wondering how to walk in with c
On the Border Lifestyle Co.
Flirt - South OKC Metro Monthly Meet & Greet
Oklahoma City, OK
South OKC Monthly M&G Flirtin' It Up @ Alley Club Time: 7:30 PM Location: Alley Club Get ready for a
On the Border Lifestyle Co.

MAY 2026 PHOTO CONTEST!
Anywhere, OK
MONTHLY PHOTO CONTEST #MayFlowers2k26 MAY FLOWERS April showers have come and gone, nowlet'slet thos
Pleasure Bound Studios
A Little's Luau Party
Olympia, WA
$25
Important note- For general assistance, please message pbs_admin on Fetlife. Management does its bes
Pleasure Bound Studios
Meet N Greet
Lakewood, WA
Important note - For general assistance, please message pbs_admin on Fetlife. Management does its be
Pleasure Bound Studios
Virtual PBS Informational Meeting
Tacoma, WA
Important note- For general assistance, please message pbs_admin on Fetlife. Management does its bes
Sanctuary

THE SLAVE PIT
Los Angeles, CA
$250
THE SLAVE PIT A Professional FemDom Play Party Wednesday May 20, 2026 7pm-10pm Sanctuary Studios LAX
Sanctuary

Advanced Fire Play
Los Angeles, CA
ADVANCED FIRE PLAY Welcome Back! A Reminder of who your teacheris Sir Kaleb Ignited an Afro Cuban Tr
Secret Pleasures

Fantasy Fulfillment Party
Emmaus, PA
4 hour party geared to ladies looking to fulfill their fantasies. Secret Pleasures is located at The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe at 422 Chestnut St, Emmaus, PA 18049. It actually says The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe on the door. Party starts at 7pm and ends at 11pm. See our website for more details:
Secret Pleasures

Lunchtime Play Party - 12pm to 3pm - Bikini The
Emmaus, PA
Secret Pleasures is located at The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe at 422 Chestnut St, Emmaus, PA 18049. It actually says The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe on the door. Party starts at 12pm and ends at 3pm. See our website for more details: www.secretpleasures.club All guests must be on a guest list, so e
Secret Pleasures

Short Skirt Tuesday Tease Party 7PM-12AM New Pricing
Emmaus, PA
Tuesday Tease Parties are designed for you to try something or someone different. Go explore and have a new amazing experience. Secret Pleasures is located at The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe at 422 Chestnut St, Emmaus, PA 18049 Party starts at 7pm and ends at 12am. See our website for more details:
Secrets Hideaway

Backyard Boogie Meet & Greet: Swingers Break® Takeover
Kissimmee, FL
Secrets Hideaway Presents: “Backyard Boogie Meet & Greet: Swingers Break® Takeover”Thursday May 21Swingers Break® Takeover presents “Backyard Boogie Meet & Greet” on Thursday, May 21st at Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa! Kick off the weekend with a retro-inspired welcome party where Playbo
Secrets Hideaway

Erotic Rendezvous
Kissimmee, FL
Secrets Hideaway™ Presents:“Erotic Rendezvous"Every Wednesday at Secrets Hideaway™Every Wednesday, Secrets Hideaway transforms into a haven of desire and connection with its weekly event, "Erotic Rendezvous." This midweek escape promises an evening where sensuality intertwines with excitement, provi
Secrets Hideaway

Pride Tuesday
Kissimmee, FL
Secrets Hideaway Presents:"Pride Tuesday"Every Tuesday at Secrets Hideaway™Join us for a dazzling night of pride and passion at Secrets Hideaway Pride Night, hosted by the fabulous Twila Holiday and April Fresh. Embracing the spirit of inclusivity and love, this event promises an electrifying atmosp
The Florida Treehouse

BDSM NIGHT
Lakeland, FL
Enjoy the best of both worlds - BDSM + Swingers in one night! Whether you are a curious beginner or experienced - this unique evening offers something for everyone. Explore your limits in a sexy yet safe environment. The Treehouse is honored to feature BDSM DMs: The Celt, Domina, Satan's Daughter, Z
The Florida Treehouse

COFFEE & COCOA MUNCH
Lakeland, FL
Meetup with BDSM & swinger friends to chat @ local restaurant. This is a great way to get out and meet others in a safe, public, friendly environment. This is also a terrific icebreaker if you're interested in coming to BDSM Night at the Treehouse. Always the Sunday before BDSM night! THIS IS A MEET
The Florida Treehouse

FRISKY FIESTA POOL PARTY
Lakeland, FL
Celebrate Cinco de Mayo early at our frisky fiesta. We're launching summer with the first pool party of the season! Let's enjoy the warm weather & hang out in the pool. Nacho average pool party. Friends are welcome to bring their beach chairs to sun their buns in the backyard. ~ ATTIRE: Show off you
krilisfel
Sign in to viewTampa, FL
Sailing on Margaritaville at Sea to Mexico. Is anyone else going to be on board, as well. Looking to spend some quality time, both inside and out of the cabin (or balcony).
krilisfel
Sign in to view✈Manhattan, NY
Her 1st visit to NYC! Flying in for a quick 3 night promotional getaway (I know, way too little time) for her first taste of the city that never sleeps. Lots packed in to the very short time, but still would love to meet other lifestylers. Staying in a Midtown Property near Grand Central. Have limit
krilisfel
Sign in to view✈New York, NY
Her 1st visit to NYC! Flying in for a quick 3 night promotional getaway (I know, way too little time) for her first taste of the city that never sleeps. Lots packed in to the very short time, but still would love to meet other lifestylers. Staying in a Midtown Property near Grand Central. Have limit
nneohm
Sign in to viewAkron, OH
Bi Group Play Session. 930 am until noon. Well Cum Couples, Ladies and Gentlemen. Cum n Enjoy.
nneohm
Sign in to viewAkron, OH
Bi Group Play Session. 930 am until noon. Well Cum Couples, Ladies and Gentlemen. Cum n Enjoy.
karma77
Sign in to viewPhoenixville, PA
Hi male looking to make special friendships within the lifestyle. My GF is encouraging my bisexuality and is encouraging me to find friends with and without benefits that help me explore my bi side. tuesdays are always a free night and would love to meet men, women and couples over drinks in the Pho
karma77
Sign in to viewPhoenixville, PA
Hi male looking to make special friendships within the lifestyle. My GF is encouraging my bisexuality and is encouraging me to find friends with and without benefits that help me explore my bi side. tuesdays are always a free night and would love to meet men, women and couples over drinks in the Pho
karma77
Sign in to viewPhoenixville, PA
Hi male looking to make special friendships within the lifestyle. My GF is encouraging my bisexuality and is encouraging me to find friends with and without benefits that help me explore my bi side. tuesdays are always a free night and would love to meet men, women and couples over drinks in the Pho
Big8md
Sign in to view✈Fort Lauderdale, FL
I will be on the Regal Princess May 16-23 leaving from Fort Lauderdale. I am looking to play with females, couples or bi-males. I am Interested in most types of safe fun!
Big8md
Sign in to view✈Fort Lauderdale, FL
I will be on the Regal Princess May 16-23 leaving from Fort Lauderdale. I am looking to play with females, couples or bi-males. I am Interested in most types of safe fun!
Big8md
Sign in to view✈Fort Lauderdale, FL
I will be on the Regal Princess May 16-23 leaving from Fort Lauderdale. I am looking to play with females, couples or bi-males. I am Interested in most types of safe fun!
Fitcplfun
Sign in to view✈Marco Island, FL
At our SWFL spot for a week and interested in meeting open-minded, bi-curious or bi couples & singles.
Fitcplfun
Sign in to view✈Marco Island, FL
At our SWFL spot for a week and interested in meeting open-minded, bi-curious or bi couples & singles.
Fitcplfun
Sign in to view✈Marco Island, FL
At our SWFL spot for a week and interested in meeting open-minded, bi-curious or bi couples & singles.
6Scorpio9
Sign in to viewGalena, IL
I will have my motor home set up at a local campground so I can host! I enjoy watching others play. I will host for others just so I can watch, if you would like me to join, take pics or film, I am good with that as well.
6Scorpio9
Sign in to viewJanesville, WI
I have a light schedule all this week! I can travel within an hour or so! I do have a large SUV so back seat fun is not out of the question!
6Scorpio9
Sign in to viewGalena, IL
I will have my motor home set up at a local campground so I can host! I enjoy watching others play. I will host for others just so I can watch, if you would like me to join, take pics or film, I am good with that as well.
Vablonde4fun2
Sign in to view✈Gatlinburg, TN
We will be in town the week of the 16-21. Looking for BBC or couple with bi female. Hubby loves to watch me please and be pleased by others. Hit me up if you are interested in getting together for some sexual fun or we can hit the town for some adventure then back to the condo for some late night ad
Vablonde4fun2
Sign in to view✈Gatlinburg, TN
We will be in town the week of the 16-21. Looking for BBC or couple with bi female. Hubby loves to watch me please and be pleased by others. Hit me up if you are interested in getting together for some sexual fun or we can hit the town for some adventure then back to the condo for some late night ad
Vablonde4fun2
Sign in to viewGatlinburg, TN
We will be in town the week of the 16-21. Looking for BBC or couple with bi female. Hubby loves to watch me please and be pleased by others. Hit me up if you are interested in getting together for some sexual fun or we can hit the town for some adventure then back to the condo for some late night ad
eximious2
Sign in to view✈New York, NY
I’m staying at a hotel in Times Square area Saturday night. I’ll be available a little later on after 11 PM. Was hoping to find a cool, hot couple or a cool, hot single to hang out with. Please reach out and say hi!
eximious2
Sign in to view✈New York, NY
I’m staying at a hotel in Times Square area Saturday night. I’ll be available a little later on after 11 PM. Was hoping to find a cool couple or a cool Cingel to hang out with. Please reach out and say hi!
eximious2
Sign in to view✈Pittsburgh, PA
I’ve never been to Pitt and am staying @ hotel Sunday through Wednesday. Checking out Pirates game on Sunday and I have plans on Tuesday evening, but am otherwise open to options, exploring the city, and finding some cool people for some healthy adult fun! I can host. Open your pics and give me a sh
dirttrackfan94
Sign in to view✈Stone Harbor, NJ
In town for a few days...Would love to have some fun...Prefer couples and single women, but won't rule out a single guy either
dirttrackfan94
Sign in to view✈Stone Harbor, NJ
In town for a few days...Would love to have some fun...Prefer couples and single women, but won't rule out a single guy either
dirttrackfan94
Sign in to view✈Stone Harbor, NJ
In town for a few days...Would love to have some fun...Prefer couples and single women, but won't rule out a single guy either
dandpforever
Sign in to view✈Cherokee, NC
Staying at the casino a couple days and would love to make new friends with benefits.
dandpforever
Sign in to view✈Cherokee, NC
Staying at the casino for a couple days would love to make new friends with benefits.
shauntoni
Sign in to viewHomosassa, FL
We will be in the area for 2 weeks and looking for hookups with like minded people during our two weeks in the area. If you are interested drop us a line you never know what fun could come from it.
shauntoni
Sign in to viewHomosassa, FL
We will be out and about. No pressure night but looking to make some new friends. Let us know if you are interested in grabbing a drink or saying hi, send us a message! We will be in the area till the 28th.
shauntoni
Sign in to viewHomosassa, FL
We will be out and about. No pressure night but looking to make some new friends. Let us know if you are interested in grabbing a drink or saying hi, send us a message!
WeR4thNGoal
Sign in to view✈Las Vegas, NV
Staying on Fremont Street in Vegas 5/18 - 5/22 and looking to meet some fun new friends. Fun like-minded couples (or sexy single black men) who want to dance, swim, drink adult beverages, and hang out for some fun times playing (or not) while we're in town. We haven't played with a couple yet, but l
WeR4thNGoal
Sign in to view✈Las Vegas, NV
Staying on Fremont Street in Vegas 5/18 - 5/22 and looking to meet some fun new friends. Fun like-minded couples (or sexy single black men) who want to dance, swim, drink adult beverages, and hang out for some fun times playing (or not) while we're in town. We haven't played with a couple yet, but l
WeR4thNGoal
Sign in to view✈Las Vegas, NV
Staying on Fremont Street in Vegas 5/18 - 5/22 and looking to meet some fun new friends. Fun like-minded couples (or sexy single black men) who want to dance, swim, drink adult beverages, and hang out for some fun times playing (or not) while we're in town. We haven't played with a couple yet, but l
Beachcpl4gf
Sign in to view✈Marathon, FL
We are in town with family but looking to get away for alittle fun. Looking for a sexy woman or a cool fun couple. Hit us up and open your pics.
Beachcpl4gf
Sign in to view✈Marathon, FL
We are in town with family but looking to get away for alittle fun. Looking for a sexy woman or a cool fun couple. Hit us up and open your pics.
Beachcpl4gf
Sign in to view✈Marathon, FL
We are in town with family but looking to get away for alittle fun. Looking for a sexy woman or a cool fun couple. Hit us up and open your pics.
Bri_chels_14094
Sign in to viewHuntsville, AL
I (male) am coming down for some training for work. Looking for some good time throughout the week. Looking to find a couple for a few drinks and see where it goes from there.
Bri_chels_14094
Sign in to viewHuntsville, AL
I (male) am coming down for some training for work. Looking for some good time throughout the week. Looking to find a couple for a few drinks and see where it goes from there.
Bri_chels_14094
Sign in to viewHuntsville, AL
I (male) am coming down for some training for work. Looking for some good time throughout the week. Looking to find a couple for a few drinks and see where it goes from there.
DDDandmecle
Sign in to view✈Kill Devil Hills, NC
Male half is in town for work. 5-10 260 muscular build. I will open pics upon request. DD free Even if it’s just drinks all good.
DDDandmecle
Sign in to view✈Raleigh, NC
Male half is in town for work. 5-10 260 muscular build. I will open pics upon request. DD free Even if it’s just drinks all good.
DDDandmecle
Sign in to view✈Kinston, NC
Male half is in town for work. 5-10 260 muscular build. I will open pics upon request. DD free Even if it’s just drinks all good.
DaddyNPanther
Sign in to view✈Las Vegas, NV
Hubby looking for sexy women of all shapes and sizes that want long lasting good dick and tongue. Wife looking to be fucked good. She is not into pain or anal or choking. She just wants to cum and squirt on as many quality dick as possible. We want to play together and play alone…couples too.
alldaysucker
Sign in to view✈Vernon, NY
Have a room for the day and looking to party. You have to be white,circumcised and be available from 11am to 1pm
funadventure10
Sign in to view✈Las Vegas, NV
We will be visiting Vegas the 17th to the 22nd. Looking to meet for drinks and fun.
funadventure10
Sign in to view✈Las Vegas, NV
Visiting Las Vegas for several days. Looking to go out for drinks and fun.
MontaukSwinger926
Sign in to view✈Arlington, MA
In town for wort and looking to expand my experiences. I’m open to meeting great people. Let’s chat and see how things shake out.
MontaukSwinger926
Sign in to view✈Arlington, MA
In town for wort and looking to expand my experiences. I’m open to meeting great people. Let’s chat and see how things shake out.
her3fun
Sign in to view✈Amarillo, TX
BBC Virgin needing to change that. Looking for tall black man with a BBC. MUST be DD free.
her3fun
Sign in to view✈Amarillo, TX
BBC Virgin needing to change that. Looking for tall black man with a BBC. MUST be DD free.
NightSecrets
Sign in to view✈North Myrtle Beach, SC
Fun sexual couple looking for ideal playmate or mates on our week long vacation at the beach.
NightSecrets
Sign in to view✈North Myrtle Beach, SC
Sexy couple looking for playtime while on vacation. Female is very picky but eager to play.
NightSecrets
Sign in to view✈North Myrtle Beach, SC
Sexy fun couple looking for some playtime. Preferably bi female to play with. I (female) am very picky but eager to play.
s908222
Sign in to view✈Houston, TX
In town for the Evening.. We are in Town and free tonight after 9 pm
Looking to have a nice gentleman or couple seduce my wife.. Please be
sincere and interested in meeting.. TY