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Colette Austin

Hot Wife Fridays@ colette Austin

Fri, May 29, 2026

Austin, TX

Hot Wife Fridays@ colette Austin Doors open at 9pm * Check out membership details on our website or just ask at the door colette Austin 13800 Dragline Dr. Austin, Texas 78728 Phone: (512) 670-2051 Email: [email protected]

Colette Austin

colette Austin Thirty Dollar Thursday

Thu, May 28, 2026

Austin, Texas

From $10

colette Austin Thirty Dollar Thursday Austin 9:00 PM - 2:00 AM Every Thursday. Don't miss this excel

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Colette Austin

colette Austin Newbie Night

Wed, May 27, 2026

Austin, Texas

From $10

9 PM - 2 AM New to our world? Come check out what colette has to offer. FREE one-night membership fo

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Colette Dallas

colette Dallas Hotwife Night

Fri, May 29, 2026

Dallas, TX

From $20

9 PM - 4 AM The idea of hotwifing comes from the concept of a husband showing off and sharing his ho

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Colette Dallas

colette Dallas Thirty Dollar Thursday

Thu, May 28, 2026

Dallas, TX

From $10

9 PM - 2 AM Every Thursday. Don't miss this excellent opportunity to experience colette at an incred

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Colette Dallas

colette Dallas Newbie Night

Wed, May 27, 2026

Dallas, TX

From $10

9 PM - 2 AM New to our world? Come check out what colette has to offer. FREE one-night membership fo

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Colette New Orleans

colette New Orleans Newbie Night

Thu, May 28, 2026

New Orleans, LA

From $10

9 PM - 2 AM New to our world? Come check out what colette has to offer.FREE one-night membership for

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Colette New Orleans

Newbie Night @ colette NOLA

Wed, May 27, 2026

New Orleans, LA

Newbie Night @ colette NOLA Doors open at 9pm New to our world? Come check out what colette has to offer! *Check out membership details on our website or just ask at the door colette NOLA 822 Gravier Street New Orleans, LA 70112 (504) 588-1517 http://coletteclubs.com/

Colette New Orleans

colette Houston Back to the 80s & Newbie Night

Wed, May 27, 2026

Houston, TX

From $10

9 PM - 2 AM Get ready to moonwalk your way back to the 1980s at our totally rad Wednesday night even

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DomCon

Advertising Opportunities - DomCon LA 2026

Wed, May 27, 2026

Los Angeles, CA

Advertising Opportunities Deadline May 15th 2026 Advertising Options & Specs Our 8.5 x 11 full col

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DomCon

DomCon LA 2026 Registration

Wed, May 27, 2026

Los Angeles, CA

From $25

Who Attends DomCon? Whether youre new to BDSM or a seasoned player, DomCon has a place for everyone. The premier convention for Domination, submission, and fetish has two locations twice a year. No matter where you live, DomCon is an accessible expo of knowledge and exploration. To find out more abo

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DomCon

Sponsorship Opportunities - DomCon LA 2026

Wed, May 27, 2026

Los Angeles, CA

$1000

Sponsorship Opportunities DomCon LA invites you to participate in the sponsorship of America's Premier Professional and Lifestyle Domination Convention. Being a DomCon LA Sponsor presents an excellent opportunity to expand the exposure and visibility of your name, logo and/or website as well as crea

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Hidden Agenda

COUPLES SPEED DATING

Thu, Jun 11, 2026

SPEED DATING Where Your Next Favorite Couple Awaits ! Step into Hidden Agendas Speed Dating for Couples Event a fast, flirty experience curated exclusively for the consensually non-monogamous community.The energy builds fast, the conversations run hot! These quick rounds create a lively rhythm playf

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Hidden Agenda

SWINGFEST '26

Sat, Jun 6, 2026

Detroit, MI

From $70

SWINGFEST 2026 No ocean. No sand. Just a venue completely wrecked by beach fantasy and bad intention

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Hidden Agenda

BEHIND THE HIDDEN DOORS: OPEN TOURS

Wed, May 27, 2026

Detroit, MI

Behind the Hidden Doors An Exclusive Open House & Tour Event Curious about Hidden Agenda Detroit? Th

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Ohio Swings

Glow Party

Fri, May 29, 2026

New Carlisle, OH

From $30

We supply the glow, the blinky, the flashy. You supply the sexy bodies!!! Our parties are laid back

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Ohio Swings

THIRSTY THURSDAY

Thu, May 28, 2026

New Carlisle, OH

From $20

Join us for an unforgettable evening at our exclusive Thirsty Thursday Swingers Event! This is not

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Ohio Swings

Kink Night

Wed, May 27, 2026

New Carlisle, OH

From $20

Come see what SHADOW has in store for you kinky people. Maybe, some wax play, fire play. Our parties

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Pendulum Club

7 SLUTTY DRESS FRIDAY NORTH

Fri, May 29, 2026

Spring, TX

From $32.48

NORTH LOCATION!!! Must see this club! TPC is now in NORTH HOUSTON! FRIDAY NIGHT IS SLUTTY DRESS NIGH

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Pendulum Club

2 HOTWIFE THURSDAY

Thu, May 28, 2026

Houston, TX

From $32.84

TPC HOTWIFE THURSDAY IS NOW A WEEKLY EVENT! Wow! Thursday nights in Houston just got sexier! Our Thu

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Pendulum Club

1 Wild, Wild Wednesday!

Wed, May 27, 2026

Houston, TX

From $32.48

Woo-Hoo! No Need to wait until the weekend to feed the perv in you, TPC is happy to present Wild Wil

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Wild Walker's

Spanking Party

Thu, Jun 4, 2026

Dearborn Heights, MI

Club Wild Walkers Presents Bar Take Over Private Wednesday Take over at Wild Walkers HELD ON THE 3rd WEDNESDAY OF EACH MONTH AND 1ST THURSDAY. No Cover Meet N Greet Inviting all those who are into the spanking Scene. To stop on in and meet others That are as open to exploring as you are. Opening on

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Wild Walker's

VIP- Frisky Meet and Greet

Fri, May 29, 2026

Dearborn Heights, MI

Club Wild Walkers Presents A Free No Cover Lifestyle VIP Meet and Greet. Open to All Lifestyle Peopl

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Wild Walker's

Fetish Party

Wed, May 27, 2026

Dearborn Heights, MI

Club Wild Walkers Presents Fetish Night open to all Fetishes. Swingers and Lifestyle people looking

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BeenPanda

Wed, May 13, 2026

✈Palm Springs, CA

Hi everyone. We'll be at the O Spa in Palm Springs Wednesday night May 13th. We're looking for couples or single ladies. No single men right now please. We'll have alcohol, take some shots, relax in the hot spas. It's a clothing optional spa and we'll definitely be using that to our advantage. Hopef

BeenPanda

Wed, May 27, 2026

Victorville, CA

Hi everyone. We're looking for a hook up, some NSA, clean fun. We can host. Just really need to have some fun and de-stress. We'll have booze, take some shots, just have a good time. Hit us up, let us know, we're both very pleasing and giving. Couples and single ladies only. No single males this tim

Tempusfuget22

Fri, May 29, 2026

N Myrtle Beach, SC

We will be staying in Myrtle Friday and she wants to have a sucking for certs get together and BBC's are most welcome. So if you're interested reach out with a pic available please. This will be from 2 till 7pm T&D

Tempusfuget22

Thu, May 28, 2026

Myrtle Beach, SC

We will be visiting the beach and would like to meet a couple or BBC to join us that evening. We will host , have a picture for her to see and be serious. T&D

Tempusfuget22

Wed, May 27, 2026

Myrtle Beach, SC

We will be in Myrtle beach Thursday evening and would like to have a couple, or a BBC join us or maybe both to pass some time away. Have a g rated pic to share if you're interested. We will host

totally100percent

Sun, May 24, 2026

✈New Orleans, LA

Another fun weekend in NOLA ......Say Hi :) A&M....

totally100percent

Sat, May 23, 2026

✈New Orleans, LA

Another fun weekend in NOLA ......Say Hi :) A&M....

totally100percent

Wed, May 27, 2026

✈New Orleans, LA

Another fun weekend in NOLA ......Say Hi :) A&M....

Philburl

Fri, May 29, 2026

Washington, DC

Mature couple’s last night in DC. Site seeing and meeting new couples and selected singles are on our agenda

Philburl

Thu, May 28, 2026

Washington, DC

Mature couple visiting for a week. Site seeing and meeting new couples and selected singles are on our agenda

Philburl

Wed, May 27, 2026

Washington, DC

Mature couple visiting for a week. Site seeing and meeting new couples and selected singles are on our agenda

Hotwife_Nxxtdoor

Wed, May 27, 2026

✈Louisville, KY

Celebrating Hubs’ 50th in Louisville. Married, bourbon-loving couple looking for upscale drinks, dim lights, good music, and playful chemistry. Open to couples, or confident singles—no pressure, just vibes. Where’s your go-to drink spot?

Hotwife_Nxxtdoor

Wed, May 27, 2026

✈Louisville, KY

Celebrating Hubs’ 50th in Louisville (May 24–29) and doing it right. Married, bourbon-loving, flirty, and ready to make the night unforgettable. Think upscale drinks, dim lights, good music, and playful flirting that speaks volumes. Looking for couples, or confident singles who enjoy good convo, rea

Hotwife_Nxxtdoor

Wed, May 27, 2026

✈Louisville, KY

Celebrating a milestone the right way—Married couple visiting Louisville May 24–29 for Hubs 50th — and we’re making it unforgettable. We’re bourbon lovers, a little flirtatious, a lot of fun, and we clean up very well for a night out. Think: upscale cocktails, low lighting, slow music, and lingering

cpamba_2000

Fri, May 29, 2026

New Smyrna Beach, FL

In town for the week and looking for fun, attractive people to meet drinks, motorcycle rides, and fun times!

cpamba_2000

Thu, May 28, 2026

New Smyrna Beach, FL

In town for the week and looking for fun, attractive people to meet drinks, motorcycle rides, and fun times!

cpamba_2000

Wed, May 27, 2026

New Smyrna Beach, FL

In town for the week and looking for fun, attractive people to meet drinks, motorcycle rides, and fun times!

pebblesbambam1

Fri, May 29, 2026

✈Fort Lauderdale, FL

We will be in town for a while and would love to meet some new sexy friends. Looking for HWP couples, single females and the occasional exceptional single males. Read our profile and certs and see if we might be your type. Bi females go to the top of the list

pebblesbambam1

Thu, May 28, 2026

✈Fort Lauderdale, FL

pebblesbambam1

Wed, May 27, 2026

✈Fort Lauderdale, FL

HotwifeHotlife69

Tue, May 26, 2026

✈Biloxi, MS

Will be in Biloxi for about 4 nights and looking for hot couples, single hot guys or hot married guys. Send pics if interested and we will reciprocate. Don't reply without them open and yes we will open ours in return

HotwifeHotlife69

Wed, May 27, 2026

✈Biloxi, MS

Will be in town for a few nights. Looking for hot couples, single hot guys, or married hot guys. Open pics of you reply and yes we will reciprocate.

2bimore

Tue, May 26, 2026

✈Battle Creek, MI

We will be in town the 26th and 27th. Looking to make new friends :-) Take a peek at our profile and let us know if you may be interested in meeting.

2bimore

Wed, May 27, 2026

✈Battle Creek, MI

We will be in town the 26th and 27th. Looking to make new friends :-) Take a peek at our profile and let us know if you may be interested in meeting.

tatianaj69

Fri, May 29, 2026

✈Seattle, WA

We will be in Seattle and are looking for fun. She is willing to meet.

tatianaj69

Thu, May 28, 2026

✈Seattle, WA

Unicorn. Let me be your third. I'll be in town for a couple of nights and want to be shared with your wife.

tatianaj69

Wed, May 27, 2026

✈Seattle, WA

Wife wants to be a unicorn, hoping someone can oblige

Kr2825

Wed, May 27, 2026

Cabo San Lucas Centro, 03

Wifey and I will be in Cabo San Lucas & @ Riu Palace. Looking to see how the vibe is and hopefully meet new friends. Open to anything that pops up in the moment since we are newbies and never had any experience in the lifestyle. Say hi and let's bump in to eachother. Anything is possible...single ma

PerkyNipples

Wed, May 27, 2026

✈The Villages, FL

Will be there for our anniversary and looking for some extra fun

table_for_three

Wed, May 27, 2026

Houston, TX

Looking for single white males for GB or a train. Will be around 8 in the evening

VictoriaVixsin

Fri, May 29, 2026

✈Clearwater, FL

We'll be staying at a hotel in the Clearwater, St. Pete, Treasure Island area from May 27th thru May 31st. Looking to possibly find a single male or couple for us to meet and for the wifey to play with if there's a connection.

VictoriaVixsin

Thu, May 28, 2026

✈Clearwater, FL

VictoriaVixsin

Wed, May 27, 2026

✈Clearwater, FL

SamNTravis

Wed, May 27, 2026

✈Santa Fe, NM

The wife and I will be on a mini vacation in Santa Fe from May 26th through May 29th, 2026. We can host at our hotel.

CC51lifebegins

Wed, May 27, 2026

✈Charlotte Amalie, VI

Heading to St Thomas USVI Red Hook area, May 27-June 1. Looking for some new “friends” to hang out with! We love a good time! Couples, SF, select SM.

JCFuntimes033

Fri, May 29, 2026

✈Lake George, NY

Coming for Americade and looking to play, looking for in shape clean cut (athletic fit) the less body hair the better and if you have a beard just be groomed. Bisexual guys to the front of the line. Couples welcome as well and of course the elusive unicorn. Let us know send us a DM, we can host.

JCFuntimes033

Thu, May 28, 2026

✈Lake George, NY

JCFuntimes033

Wed, May 27, 2026

✈Lake George, NY

OurSpark

Fri, May 29, 2026

✈Williamsburg, VA

In town for a conference, some sightseeing & more!

OurSpark

Thu, May 28, 2026

✈Williamsburg, VA

In town for a conference, some sightseeing & more!

OurSpark

Wed, May 27, 2026

✈Williamsburg, VA

In town for a conference, some sightseeing & more!

Sexdealers

Thu, May 28, 2026

✈Las Vegas, NM

Traveling to Vegas . Looking for like minded people to have fun and enjoy the evening

Sexdealers

Wed, May 27, 2026

✈Las Vegas, NV

Traveling to Vegas . Looking for like minded people to have fun and enjoy the evening

Sigma100

Sun, May 31, 2026

✈Lahaina, HI

We will be staying in West Maui with our young daughter 5/25 to 6/4. Except for the following dates we have time at our hotel during afternoons when she is occupied with kid activities. Hoping to connect with couples or single guys. Please read our profile before you reply. Dates not available 5/25

Sigma100

Fri, May 29, 2026

✈Lahaina, HI

Sigma100

Wed, May 27, 2026

✈Lahaina, HI

NYDiscreetCouple0

Wed, May 27, 2026

Key West, FL

Taking a quick trip to the Republic. Always looking for potential adventures.

Thebad1

Wed, May 27, 2026

✈Baltimore, MD

Traveling for work and looking for playmates. I'm not familiar with the area and will be hosting in my hotel.