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Allures
2026 Allures Tropical SEXcapade to Exotic Costa Ri
Jaco, Puntarenas
Haga clic AQUÍ para ver la versión en español. Allures brings our Premier and Exclusive LifestyleE
Allures

Allures - Tropical SEXcapade to Exotic Costa Rica - Full Takeover - Clothing Optional
Sacramento, CA
Special Event Allures and Topless Travel brings our Premier and Exclusive Lifestyle Experience to Jaco, Costa Rica for a spa resort weeklong TAKEOVER! Join us in exotic Costa Rica from May 23-May 31, 2026, for a clothing optional takeover of a resort paradise! This tropical boutique hotel features 2
Allures
Hedo ~ Cum Join Us ~ Click for Open Dates
(click For All Dates Available) Negril, Jamaica
CLICK HERE FOR RATES, DATES & EVENTS Hedonism II is a lifestyle-friendly, clothing-optional resort t
Club Eden
OKC Let's GLOW CRAZY FRIDAY
Oklahoma City, OK
From $30
Let's GLOW CRAZY FRIDAY $50 VIP MEMBER COUPLES $65 DAILY MEMBER COUPLES $30 DAILY MEMBER FEMALES $16
Club Eden
SATX Lets Glow Crazy Friday
San Antonio, TX
From $30
Let's GLOW CRAZY FRIDAY $50 VIP MEMBER COUPLES $65 DAILY MEMBER COUPLES $30 DAILY MEMBER FEMALES $16
Club Eden
SATX All Kinks Thursday
San Antonio, TX
From $10
ALL KINKS THURSDAY Powered by Infliction Hall Rope*Impact*Edge*Dom/Sub/FemDom*Leather*Primal* Little
Club Safe Word

Kinky Flea Market and Open Mic
From $0.42
Welcome to our Swap Meet! This event is intended for those in the lifestyle to barter products and s
Club Safe Word

Casino Sluts Prom Night!
Welcome to our Lifestyle Play Party! For quicker check-in at a Play Party, please register for Membership on www.clubsafeword.com Membership Currently $12.99 a month(3 mo=$33, 6 mo=$52, 1 Year=$90) If you are a member of an affiliate collaborator Club, please register and contact us to gain premium
Club Safe Word

Getting Started with Kink and BDSM
Click here to reserve your space. Hi! SirKnottyDan and ReneeHayBailey here. We want to talk to you f
DomCon
Sponsorship Opportunities - DomCon LA 2026
Los Angeles, CA
$1000
Sponsorship Opportunities DomCon LA invites you to participate in the sponsorship of America's Premier Professional and Lifestyle Domination Convention. Being a DomCon LA Sponsor presents an excellent opportunity to expand the exposure and visibility of your name, logo and/or website as well as crea
DomCon
DomCon LA 2026 Registration
Los Angeles, CA
From $25
ONLINE REGISTRATION CLOSES MAY 25th. TICKETS WILL BE AVAILABLE ON SITE AT DOMCON STARTING MAY 27th Who Attends DomCon? Whether youre new to BDSM or a seasoned player, DomCon has a place for everyone. The premier convention for Domination, submission, and fetish has two locations twice a year. No mat
DomCon
DomCon LA 2026 Volunteer Sign-Up Page
Los Angeles, CA
Our Ticket page shows which Pass you will earn for the shifts listed, &/or future events. To get ful
Eros Knoxville
THE REVUE & THE RUN
Knoxville, Tennessee
From $10
THE REVUE & THE RUN RUNNING OF THE BULLS Thursday | May 14, 2026 Step into the spotlight and feel th
Eyz Wide Shut

Glitz & Glamour Country Night
Tampa, FL
From $7.68
GLITZ & GLAMOUR: COUNTRY NIGHT Where rhinestones meet boots and country charm gets a glamorous twist Glitz & Glamour Country Night is bringing style, sparkle, and Southern energy to the dance floor Doors open at 7PM Last call at 2:30AM With DJ Xavier on the decks, expect a high-energy mix of country
Eyz Wide Shut

GHOULS GUIDE TO TV HORROR TRIVA
Tampa, FL
Step into the shadows and test your knowledge of all things eerie, unsettling, and downright terrifying at our Ghouls Guide to TV Horror Trivia From cult-classic chills to modern nightmare fuel, this spine-tingling trivia night dives deep into the twisted worlds of your favorite horror TV shows. Exp
Eyz Wide Shut

Bi-Curious Night
Tampa, FL
From $8.15
BI-CURIOUS NIGHT Curiosity is welcome, conversation is encouraged, and the vibe is all about exploration, connection, and comfort in your own energy Bi-Curious Night is here Doors open at 6PM Last call at 1:30AM This is a relaxed, welcoming social night designed for open-minded guests to mingle, mee
Hush Lounge Az
DOUBLE TROUBLE-Gemini Season at Hush
Phoenix, AZ
From $15
DOUBLE TROUBLE Gemini Season at Hush Two Sides. One Unforgettable Night. Saturday May 30th 8PM 3AM Hush Lounge AZ Phoenix Gemini season has arrived and at Hush were celebrating the most playful sign in the zodiac. Geminis are known for curiosity, conversation, and a little bit of mischief. Two sides
Hush Lounge Az
T.F.I.F. POST MEMORIAL DAY BASH
Phoenix, AZ
From $5
T.F.I.F. POST MEMORIAL DAY BASH The Wet & Wild BBQ After Dark Friday, May 29th | 8PM Late Hush Loung
Hush Lounge Az
THE HUSH DISCOVERY NIGHT
Phoenix, AZ
From $10
LET US POP YOUR CHERRY DISCOVERY THURSDAYS AT HUSH Where Curiosity Meets Confidence Youve been watch
Infliction Hall

Leathers & Lace
Dfw, TX
From $15
Leathers & Lace Saturday, May, 30th $20 VIP MEMBERS - $40 Daily MEMBERS BYOB SET UPS LOCKERS Inflict
Infliction Hall
All Tied Up
Dfw, TX
From $15
ALL TIED UP Rope Play Stay Kinky and Rope On! $20 VIP MEMBERS - $30 DAILY MEMBERS BYOB SET UPS LOCKE
Infliction Hall
GURLS NIGHT OUT
Dfw, TX
From $20
GURLS NIGHT OUT Thursday Come Dance The Night Away! $20 MEMBERS - $25 DAILYMEMBERS BYOB SET UPS LOCK
KNetic Edmonton

KNetic Newbie Night & Member Appreciation!
Edmonton, AB
From $25
KNetic Newbie Night & Member Appreciation Doors open at 8:00 PM Tickets only $15 for Premium KNetic
KNetic Edmonton

Paint & Play Party
Edmonton, AB
Bare Curiosities Presents: Body Brushes A Living Canvas Immersive Experience Friday, May 28 9:30 PM
KNetic Edmonton

Erotic Paint Night
Edmonton, AB
From $30
Bare Curiosities Presents: Damsels & Deviants An Enchanted After Dark Paint Night Thursday, May 28th
Oasis Tickets
Blinded By Lust
Toronto, ON
From $25
Tonight's event is Blinded by Lust. Spend your Friday night at Oasis Aqualounge, enjoying our water-themed facilities and clothing-optional environment. Women and couples are welcome from 1:00 pm to 3:00 am. At 10:00 pm, join our host in the Oasis Ballroom for a popular theme that pairs blindfold pl
Oasis Tickets

Mystery Screening
Toronto, ON
Today, solos & couples are welcome to visit Oasis Aqualounge, from 1 pm to 3 am. Enjoy our liberated, clothing-optional environment Are you looking for erotic entertainment and some afternoon delight? Visit the Oasis Ballroom, at 5 pm, for our sexy and mysterious screening. To make attending even mo
Oasis Tickets
Naked Karaoke
Toronto, ON
Back by popular demand: Naked Karaoke returns inside Oasis Aqualounge. Singles and couples are invited to belt it out; in the buff if you dare! Join our host Scarlet Black and sing your favorite songs in the Oasis Ballroom. Naked Karaoke begins at 10:00 pm. Solos and couples are welcome from 1:00 pm
On the Border Lifestyle Co.
Flirt - East OKC Metro Monthly Meet & Greet
Oklahoma City, OK
East OKC Monthly M&G Flirtin' It Up @ Landing Zone Time: Doors open at 7:30 PM Location: Landing Zon
On the Border Lifestyle Co.

Learn - You New Here?
Anywhere, OK
Absolutely, London Heres a full copy-paste HTML event page with that warm retro hippie flower-power vibe: ```html OTB Presents: You New Here? Lifestyle Newbies Class May 21st 7:30PM CST Virtual Class Find Your Groove Fresh to the lifestyle? Heading to Sooner Swing and wondering how to walk in with c
On the Border Lifestyle Co.

MAY 2026 PHOTO CONTEST!
Anywhere, OK
MONTHLY PHOTO CONTEST #MayFlowers2k26 MAY FLOWERS April showers have come and gone, nowlet'slet thos
Pleasure Bound Studios
Sat Night Extreme
Olympia, WA
Important note- For general assistance, please message pbs_admin on Fetlife. Management does its bes
Pleasure Bound Studios
Saturday Night Lights
Olympia, WA
$25
Important note - For general assistance, please message pbs_admin on Fetlife. Management does its be
Pleasure Bound Studios
Meet N Greet
Tumwater, WA
Important note- For general assistance, please message pbs_admin on Fetlife. Management does its bes
Purgatory Dungeon
Spectrum / Purgatory Meet and Greet / Munch
Albuquerque, NM
Meet and Greet / Munch Come Join us from 6-8 pm at Stone Face in the NE Heights.( 8201 San Pedro NE
Purgatory Dungeon
Purgatory Dungeon Kink School
Albuquerque, NM
From $10
Rope Class with KnotScience_NM This class is perfect for complete beginners, as well as those lookin
Purgatory Dungeon

Ladies and Meet and Greet
Come join us for the May Ladies Meet & Greet! This event is open to all female and female-identified
SpectrumABQ
SpectrumABQ Meet and Greet
Albuquerque, NM
SpectrumABQ Meet and Greet Come Join us from 6-8 pm at Stone Face in the NE Heights.( 8201 San Pedro
SpectrumABQ

Purgatory Shibari Rope Class
Purgatory Dungeon Class Rope Class Rope Class with KnotScience_NM This class is perfect for complete
SpectrumABQ
Ladies Meet and Greet
Albuquerque, NM
Ladies Meet and Greet Come join us for the March Ladies Meet & Greet! This event is open to all female and female-identified individuals. This FREE EVENT does not require membership and is a POT LUCK - please bring food or drink to share! This Months Topic: Connection Through Movement... DANCE Join
The R.A.C.K. Room

Open Rope 404: Class Not Found
Aurora, CO
$30
Event Date and Time Thursday, May 28th, 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM Class Description Join us every Thursday in April for our Open Rope nights. Whether you are new to rope and suspension, want time with a hard point and supervision of our rope instructors, or have completed all of our Suspension series class
The R.A.C.K. Room
Open Rope 404: Class Not Found
Aurora, CO
$30
Event Date and Time 4th Thursday of the month, 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM Class Description Join us every fo
The R.A.C.K. Room

Thursday Night Play Party
Aurora, CO
$30
What is an open play party? Our events focus on building community within BDSM. The RACK Room is not
Philburl
Sign in to viewWashington, DC
Mature couple visiting for a week. Site seeing and meeting new couples and selected singles are in our agenda
Philburl
Sign in to viewWashington, DC
Mature couple’s last night in DC. Site seeing and meeting new couples and selected singles are on our agenda
Philburl
Sign in to viewWashington, DC
Mature couple visiting for a week. Site seeing and meeting new couples and selected singles are on our agenda
Hotwife_Nxxtdoor
Sign in to view✈Louisville, KY
Celebrating Hubs’ 50th in Louisville. Married, bourbon-loving couple looking for upscale drinks, dim lights, good music, and playful chemistry. Open to couples, or confident singles—no pressure, just vibes. Where’s your go-to drink spot?
Hotwife_Nxxtdoor
Sign in to view✈Louisville, KY
Celebrating a milestone the right way—Married couple visiting Louisville May 24–29 for Hubs 50th — and we’re making it unforgettable. We’re bourbon lovers, a little flirtatious, a lot of fun, and we clean up very well for a night out. Think: upscale cocktails, low lighting, slow music, and lingering
Hotwife_Nxxtdoor
Sign in to view✈Louisville, KY
Celebrating Hubs’ 50th in Louisville (May 24–29) and doing it right. Married, bourbon-loving, flirty, and ready to make the night unforgettable. Think upscale drinks, dim lights, good music, and playful flirting that speaks volumes. Looking for couples, or confident singles who enjoy good convo, rea
Gurlfuninthed
Sign in to view✈Orlando, FL
We will be in the orlando area (mostly Disney) for the week. Would love to meet with couple or single lady.
Gurlfuninthed
Sign in to view✈Orlando, FL
We will be in the orlando area (mostly Disney) for the week. Would love to meet with couple or single lady.
Gurlfuninthed
Sign in to view✈Orlando, FL
We will be in the orlando area (mostly Disney) for the week. Would love to meet with couple or single lady.
cpamba_2000
Sign in to viewNew Smyrna Beach, FL
In town for the week and looking for fun, attractive people to meet drinks, motorcycle rides, and fun times!
cpamba_2000
Sign in to viewNew Smyrna Beach, FL
In town for the week and looking for fun, attractive people to meet drinks, motorcycle rides, and fun times!
cpamba_2000
Sign in to viewNew Smyrna Beach, FL
In town for the week and looking for fun, attractive people to meet drinks, motorcycle rides, and fun times!
pebblesbambam1
Sign in to view✈Fort Lauderdale, FL
We will be in town for a while and would love to meet some new sexy friends. Looking for HWP couples, single females and the occasional exceptional single males. Read our profile and certs and see if we might be your type. Bi females go to the top of the list.
pebblesbambam1
Sign in to view✈Fort Lauderdale, FL
We will be in town for a while and would love to meet some new sexy friends. Looking for HWP couples, single females and the occasional exceptional single males. Read our profile and certs and see if we might be your type. Bi females go to the top of the list
pebblesbambam1
Sign in to view✈Fort Lauderdale, FL
We will be in town for a while and would love to meet some new sexy friends. Looking for HWP couples, single females and the occasional exceptional single males. Read our profile and certs and see if we might be your type. Bi females go to the top of the list
Funfitfantasy
Sign in to view✈Manhattan, NY
We will be in NY, NY midtown and available to host in our hotel the nights or June 26-28th. The 27th is our best open night but we can make all of them work ????????. Let us know! Looking for ?????? female to join us. We are experienced in the lifestyle for years and love this sexy community.
Funfitfantasy
Sign in to view✈Manhattan, NY
We will be in NY, NY midtown and available to host in our hotel the nights or June 26-28th. The 27th is our best open night but we can make all of them work ????????. Let us know! Looking for ?????? female to join us. We are experienced in the lifestyle for years and love this sexy community.
Funfitfantasy
Sign in to view✈Manhattan, NY
We will be in NY, NY midtown and available to host in our hotel the nights or June 26-28th. The 27th is our best open night but we can make all of them work ????????. Let us know! Looking for ?????? female to join us. We are experienced in the lifestyle for years and love this sexy community.
tatianaj69
Sign in to view✈Seattle, WA
Unicorn. Let me be your third. I'll be in town for a couple of nights and want to be shared with your wife.
VictoriaVixsin
Sign in to view✈Treasure Is, FL
We'll be staying at a hotel in the Clearwater, St. Pete, Treasure Island area from May 27th thru May 31st. Looking to possibly find a single male or couple for us to meet and for the wifey to play with if there's a connection.
VictoriaVixsin
Sign in to view✈Clearwater, FL
We'll be staying at a hotel in the Clearwater, St. Pete, Treasure Island area from May 27th thru May 31st. Looking to possibly find a single male or couple for us to meet and for the wifey to play with if there's a connection.
VictoriaVixsin
Sign in to view✈Clearwater, FL
We'll be staying at a hotel in the Clearwater, St. Pete, Treasure Island area from May 27th thru May 31st. Looking to possibly find a single male or couple for us to meet and for the wifey to play with if there's a connection.
Tempusfuget22
Sign in to viewMyrtle Beach, SC
We will be in Myrtle beach Thursday evening and would like to have a couple, or a BBC join us or maybe both to pass some time away. Have a g rated pic to share if you're interested. We will host
Tempusfuget22
Sign in to viewN Myrtle Beach, SC
We will be staying in Myrtle Friday and she wants to have a sucking for certs get together and BBC's are most welcome. So if you're interested reach out with a pic available please. This will be from 2 till 7pm T&D
Tempusfuget22
Sign in to viewMyrtle Beach, SC
We will be visiting the beach and would like to meet a couple or BBC to join us that evening. We will host , have a picture for her to see and be serious. T&D
JCFuntimes033
Sign in to view✈Lake George, NY
Coming for Americade and looking to play, looking for in shape clean cut (athletic fit) the less body hair the better and if you have a beard just be groomed. Bisexual guys to the front of the line. Couples welcome as well and of course the elusive unicorn. Let us know send us a DM, we can host.
JCFuntimes033
Sign in to view✈Lake George, NY
Coming for Americade and looking to play, looking for in shape clean cut (athletic fit) the less body hair the better and if you have a beard just be groomed. Bisexual guys to the front of the line. Couples welcome as well and of course the elusive unicorn. Let us know send us a DM, we can host.
JCFuntimes033
Sign in to view✈Lake George, NY
Coming for Americade and looking to play, looking for in shape clean cut (athletic fit) the less body hair the better and if you have a beard just be groomed. Bisexual guys to the front of the line. Couples welcome as well and of course the elusive unicorn. Let us know send us a DM, we can host.
Sexdealers
Sign in to view✈Las Vegas, NV
Traveling to Vegas . Looking for like minded people to have fun and enjoy the evening
Sexdealers
Sign in to view✈Las Vegas, NM
Traveling to Vegas . Looking for like minded people to have fun and enjoy the evening
JBandMC
Sign in to view✈Miramar Beach, FL
Hey! We are on vacation and would not mind some social time with some fun people! Let's meet for a drink or do some fun activity. **no expectations** Cheers! Matt & Jan
JBandMC
Sign in to view✈Miramar Beach, FL
Hey! We are on vacation and would not mind some social time with some fun people! Let's meet for a drink or do some fun activity. **no expectations** Cheers! Matt & Jan
JBandMC
Sign in to view✈Miramar Beach, FL
Hey! We are on vacation and would not mind some social time with some fun people! Let's meet for a drink or do some fun activity. **no expectations** Cheers! Matt & Jan
flexguy63
Sign in to viewCovington, KY
Will be with my LS GF for a few nights looking to add a third and or fourth for erotic play - she’s 58 and a sexy dynamo…. Let me know if you may have an interest- we are open to select single males, sexy females or couples - just need to chat and see what you would like and how we can possibly make
flexguy63
Sign in to viewCovington, KY
Will be with my LS GF for a few nights looking to add a third and or fourth for erotic play - she’s 58 and a sexy dynamo…. Let me know if you may have an interest- I can get pics for you ( one will be added to my public gallery) I will need to meet beforehand and if we click you can join us one of t
MnMlovinlife
Sign in to view✈Old Montreal, QC
Will be in Montreal 5/28 thru 5/31 and looking for some lifestyle fun with couples, single females and single males (BBC welcome). Plan on checking out L'Orange also. Please have up to date pics when contacting us.
MnMlovinlife
Sign in to view✈Old Montreal, QC
Will be in Montreal 5/28 thru 5/31 attending the Luke Combs concert on 5/30 and also looking for some lifestyle fun with couples, single females and single males (BBC welcome). Plan on checking out L'Orange also. Please have up to date pics when contacting us.
MnMlovinlife
Sign in to view✈Old Montreal, QC
Will be in Montreal 5/28 thru 5/31 and looking for some lifestyle fun with couples, single females and single males (BBC welcome). Plan on checking out L'Orange also. Please have up to date pics when contacting us.
Beachtobay69ers
Sign in to view✈Atlantic City, NJ
We will be staying at one the casinos of the boardwalk from Thursday thru Sunday morning
OnOurWay222
Sign in to view✈Munising, MI
We will be in Munising Tuesday night. We were wondering if any couples would like to join us for dinner. If everyone is comfortable we could go from there.
GasLampFun
Sign in to viewSan Diego, CA
Lady M is open to having a short, first time visit with athletic male during her next San Diego arrival on May 28th. Open all your pics and let us know if 45 minutes to an hour is acceptable. Cool canyon home in City Heights area. I'll show her your profile and will contact you if she is motivated.
bitoogl
Sign in to view✈Oklahoma City, OK
Will be there for the evening hoping to find a little fun to get into. Anyone up for a little fun.
drgncpl
Sign in to view✈Cancún
We will be staying at the Joia Paraiso adults only resort in a suite with a private pool. May 28-31st. Anyone there at the same time or possibly local?
drgncpl
Sign in to view✈Cancún
We will be staying at the Joia Paraiso adults only resort in a suite with a private pool. May 28-31st. Anyone there at the same time or possibly local?
drgncpl
Sign in to view✈Cancún
We will be staying at the Joia Paraiso adults only resort in a suite with a private pool. May 28-31st. Anyone there at the same time or possibly local?
MDSwinginCPL
Sign in to view✈Cancún
Desire RM from May 28th-June 2nd. Hoping to meet some new sexy friends. Can't wait to be back!
Dynamicduo4fun2021
Sign in to view✈Tucson, AZ
Hotwife Palooza May 28-31
Can't wait to check out this event and meet some new friends
Ridingdirty0037
Sign in to viewGreenville, SC
Looking in the GVL area grab drinks and see where the day - night takes us..
Cttravel
Sign in to view✈Navarre, FL
Traveling with a free night on Thursday. Would love to meet some new friends in the lifestyle. We have a hotel and can host. Please reach out and say hi, we would love to chat.
NoPantiesMN
Sign in to view✈Denver, CO
In the area for a family event, free evening on the 28th. Planning to visit the Scarlet Ranch for the first time!
NHHotWife87
Sign in to view✈Manchester, NH
Might be hitting the fusion party. Who's going? Maybe drinks and meet up before the party? Please open pics before messaging us. Single men, read our profile before messaging.
NHHotWife87
Sign in to viewFreedom, NH
We have the the whole weekend off and looking to have some fun. We can travel and get a hotel somewhere or stay local. Hit us up if you're interested in making plans.
NHHotWife87
Sign in to view✈Portsmouth, NH
We have the whole weekend free. Hopefully find some fun, looking to meet some new people for drinks and flirting.
Phillyfuncouple97
Sign in to view✈Cancún, 27
Heading to Temptation Resort in Cancun, Mexico. Looking for fun couples or singles to hang out with. Send us a message if you will be there the same time. Staying the 28th-31st
Phillyfuncouple97
Sign in to view✈Cancún, 27
Heading to Temptation Resort in Cancun, Mexico. Looking for fun couples or singles to hang out with. Send us a message if you will be there the same time. Staying the 28th-31st
Phillyfuncouple97
Sign in to view✈Cancún, 27
Heading to Temptation Resort in Cancun, Mexico. Looking for fun couples or singles to hang out with. Send us a message if you will be there the same time. Staying the 28th-31st
Catchandrelease2
Sign in to viewKissimmee, FL
Headed to Screts for Newbie night and staying through Saturday. If you will be there say hi!
FrostnVi
Sign in to view✈Hager City, WI
Ladies Night at Sugars Strip Club in Hager WI! Grab your girlfriends for an unforgettable evening! Sexy male strippers, sexy female strippers- it's gonna be a night to remember! 7pm!