Lifestyle Events Calendar
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Friday, June 12, 2026
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Caliente Club & Resorts
Sat, May 9, 2026
Land O Lakes, FL
Saturday, May 9, 2026 8 PM One of the most popular non-holiday themes at Caliente comes back to us on Saturday, May 9! Get bright, get colorful, and get ready to GLOW! It's Caliente's Glow Party. Special guest DJ Encore returns to play alongside DJ Ian. You know what you've gotta do! Contact us for
Caliente Club & Resorts
Thu, May 7, 2026
Land O Lakes, FL
Thursday, May 7, 2026 8 PM Anyone ready for ladies' night that combines a little spice with soft colors, scents, and sweetness? Then join us for Sweet Dreams of Pastel Ladies' Night on Thursday, May 7. Live music in the Piano Bar from 7 PM, with DJ Ian opening the Nightclub at 8 PM. Contact us for D
Caliente Club & Resorts
Thu, Jun 11, 2026
Land O Lakes, FL
Thursday, June 11, 2026 8 PM Slip into something purple for an amazing ladies' night. Special guest hosts from The Accidental Swingers and The Unofficial Facebook Page help us bring you Purple Rain Ladies' Night - A tribute to Prince on Thursday, June 11 starting at 8 PM. Contact us for Day and Even
CHECKMATE NYC
Sat, May 2, 2026
New York, NY
LET'S CELEBRATE CINCO DE MAYO WEAR YOIUR SEXIEST OUTFITS AND LINGERIE! A party done in a classy and erotic way! BEAUTIFUL COUPLES AND SINGLE GIRLS NO SINGLE MEN EVER! Dance to our dj playing the best tracks! Girls wear your sexiest dress, highest stilettos, lingerie and outfits of the season while s
CHECKMATE NYC
Fri, Jun 12, 2026
New York, NY
EROTICA FRIDAYS! Beautiful cpls and single girls only! We have a high class, swanky setting for a fetish party where all your fetishes and fantasies are welcomed. Full or soft swap, voyeurs, e erotica and much more... New York city’s most fabulous adult lifestyle friday night party. Only prescreened
CHECKMATE NYC
Thu, Jun 11, 2026
New York, NY
REDUCED ADMISSION FOR CHECKMATE MEMBERS THURSDAY NIGHTS AFTER WORK PARTY! NO SINGLE MEN EVER AT CHECKMATE! We take NO walk-ins or guests. You must have an rsvp if you are a member or have an invitation/ approval and abide by our dress code. Experience a classy and stylish evening of adult fun, Sexy
Eyz Wide Shut
Sun, May 3, 2026
Tampa, FL
6pm-2am $3 Wells until 9pm Nightclub - 6pm - 2am Free Tour of Playrooms Nightly @ 8 pm Playrooms - 8:30pm-11:30pm Full Access INCLUDES FREE USE OF 10 PRIVATE, 2 GROUP ROOM, 1 LARGE DUNGEON AND 1 SMALL DUNGEON. We welcome swingers, exhibitionists, voyeurs, fetishists and lovers of RED HOT SEX! ~ Full
Eyz Wide Shut
Fri, Jun 12, 2026
Tampa, FL
7pm-5am $3 Wells until 9pm Nightclub - 7pm - 3am Free Tour of Playrooms Nightly @ 9:30pm Playrooms - 11pm - 5am Full Access INCLUDES FREE USE OF 10 PRIVATE, 2 GROUP ROOM, 1 LARGE DUNGEON AND 1 SMALL DUNGEON. We welcome swingers, exhibitionists, voyeurs, fetishists and lovers of RED HOT SEX! ~ Full L
Eyz Wide Shut
Thu, Jun 11, 2026
Tampa, FL
6pm-2am $3 Wells until 9pm Nightclub - 6pm - 2am Free Tour of Playrooms @ 8 pm on Thursdays Playrooms - 9pm - 1am Full Access INCLUDES FREE USE OF 10 PRIVATE, 2 GROUP ROOM, 1 LARGE DUNGEON AND 1 SMALL DUNGEON. We welcome swingers, exhibitionists, voyeurs, fetishists and lovers of RED HOT SEX! ~ Full
Secrets Hideaway
Mon, May 4, 2026
Kissimmee, FL
Secrets Hideaway Presents:“Karaoke Monday” Every Monday at Secrets Hideaway™Dive into a night of musical revelry and unabashed fun at our Karaoke Night Poolside, where you're invited to let your inner star shine. Nestled under the twinkling canvas of the night sky, this event invites you to take the
Secrets Hideaway
Sun, May 3, 2026
Kissimmee, FL
Secrets Hideaway Presents:“Sunday Pool Party”Every Sunday 10am-7pmSundays have never been more liberating! Join us every Sunday from 10 am to 5 pm for the ultimate relaxation and rejuvenation at Secrets Hideaway's Sunday Pool Party. Whether you're extending the weekend fun with Sunday Funday or wind
Secrets Hideaway
Fri, Jun 12, 2026
Kissimmee, FL
Secrets Hideaway Presents: “Friday Pool Party”Every Friday 10am-5pmKick off your weekend in style at the Friday Pool Party, an enticing affair hosted every Friday from 10 am to 5 pm at Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa. Immerse yourself in the ultimate daytime indulgence as you join Orlando's most e
TABU Social Club
Sat, May 9, 2026
Catonsville, MD
Neon Dreams Party at TABU! We encourage you to wear White, Neon or something that GLOWS in the Black-lights tonight. Neon Body Painting by Dean Tonight too! (Tipping appreciated) Coupes that BOTH come in theme and arrive before 10 pm will get $10 off at the door when they arrive. Single Ladies in TH
TABU Social Club
Fri, May 8, 2026
Catonsville, MD
Friday Night Blackout Party at TABU Home of the one and ONLY Original Blackout Party! Join us at Tabu while you still can! We provide all the Glow Sticks and Necklaces; you provide the FUN. We turn the lights out at Midnight and relax normal upstairs play restrictions for some really HOT Times. Blac
TABU Social Club
Fri, Jun 12, 2026
Catonsville, MD
Friday Night Blackout Party at TABU Home of the one and ONLY Original Blackout Party! Join us at Tabu while you still can! We provide all the Glow Sticks and Necklaces; you provide the FUN. We turn the lights out at Midnight and relax normal upstairs play restrictions for some really HOT Times. Blac
The Cottage in Gettysburg
Sat, May 9, 2026
Gettysburg, PA
This is a night for the ladies to enjoy as the men show off their ASSets in an attempt to win the best buns contest. New members please arrive between 8 PM and 10 PM. New single males are required to attend on a Friday and become a yearly member before attending a Saturday night event. Membership is
The Cottage in Gettysburg
Fri, May 8, 2026
Gettysburg, PA
Calling all Cottage guys…normally it’s the ladies that are showing off their sexiness, but tonight the focus of attention is on the men!! Guys, dress in your favorite studly outfit. It could be a formal suit and tie or the casual look of tight jeans and T-shirts. The women will be the judge of the m
The Cottage in Gettysburg
Fri, Jun 12, 2026
Gettysburg, PA
Calling all Cottage guys…normally it’s the ladies that are showing off their sexiness, but tonight the focus of attention is on the men!! Guys, dress in your favorite studly outfit. It could be a formal suit and tie or the casual look of tight jeans and T-shirts. The women will be the judge of the m
The Florida Treehouse
Sat, May 9, 2026
Lakeland, FL
Meetup with BDSM & swinger friends to chat @ local restaurant. This is a great way to get out and meet others in a safe, public, friendly environment. This is also a terrific icebreaker if you're interested in coming to BDSM Night at the Treehouse. Always the Sunday before BDSM night! THIS IS A MEET
The Florida Treehouse
Fri, May 8, 2026
Lakeland, FL
Rainbow nights are specifically focused on meeting and playing with our rainbow friends, partners, and allies. No specifications on relationship, gender, kink, or sexual identity. Whether you want to connect with your rainbow friends, gender bend, or explore a new facet of your sexuality - this is y
The Florida Treehouse
Sun, May 3, 2026
Lakeland, FL
Celebrate Cinco de Mayo early at our frisky fiesta. We're launching summer with the first pool party of the season! Let's enjoy the warm weather & hang out in the pool. Nacho average pool party. Friends are welcome to bring their beach chairs to sun their buns in the backyard. ~ ATTIRE: Show off you
THE HOUSE
Fri, May 15, 2026
Raleigh, NC
MALES PLEASE READ: all males will be held to the upmost respect. Any disrespect shown towards females or other males. You will be asked to leave the party. We will allow between 50 guys, and 25 females, 25 couples into the party. Your plan for the evening is up to you. Whether you would like to obse
THE HOUSE
Sat, May 9, 2026
Raleigh, NC
Ok if you know the game we are sure you like it. There will be 5 cups set upside down on a table and you flip them over one handed. there will be 8 couples who will play for first and second places. First place will be 50 and second place a HOUSE pass. So get your reservations in before we fill up.
THE HOUSE
Fri, Jun 12, 2026
Raleigh, NC
MALES PLEASE READ: all males will be held to the upmost respect. Any disrespect shown towards females or other males. You will be asked to leave the party. We will allow between 50 guys, and 25 females, 25 couples into the party. Your plan for the evening is up to you. Whether you would like to obse
The Melting Pot For Adult Fun
Fri, Jun 12, 2026
Bangkok, bangkok
From $750
JUNE 2026: THE THRILL OF A LIFETIME! Dates: June 12th 20th, 2026 Location: Pattaya & Bangkok, Thaila
The Melting Pot For Adult Fun
Sat, Jun 6, 2026
Rock Hill, SC
$65
Dive into a hidden sanctuary where the rhythm of the drums meets the whispering palms. We are transf
The Melting Pot For Adult Fun
Fri, Jun 12, 2026
Greenville, SC
THE THAILAND EXPERIENCE — JUNE 12–20, 2026 Pattaya ? Bangkok Eight unforgettable days across Thailand’s most energetic cities. This isn’t just a vacation — it’s a bucket-list trip with nightlife, culture, beaches, rooftop views, upscale dinners, and just the right amount of mischief after dark. DAYT
The Private Affair
Sat, May 23, 2026
Port Deposit, MD
OUR YEARLY PARTY RED WHITE AND BLUE ..COME PARTY WITH US AND PLEASE DRESS IN THE THEME COLORS theprivateaffair.com for reservations 4100-378-8948 Have membership ?? go to [email protected] and send them an email
The Private Affair
Sat, May 16, 2026
Port Deposit, MD
it's TIME TO Help BATMAN CELABRATE ANOTHER TRIP AROUND THE SUN Come party the night away and maybe a little birthday dances for Tony theprivateaffair.com for reservations 4100-378-8948 Have membership ?? go to [email protected] and send them an email
The Private Affair
Fri, Jun 12, 2026
Port Deposit, MD
COME PARTY WITH ALL YOUR SEXY PEOPLE FROM MOCHA THERE WILL BE EXTRA SEXY MEN FOR THIS EVENT theprivateaffair.com for reservations 4100-378-8948 Have membership ?? go to [email protected] and send them an emailSO COME AND FILL SOME OF YOUR FANASTIES
The Vixen Social Club
Mon, May 4, 2026
Saginaw, MI
Costumes are definitely encouraged. Time to fly your geek flag with this fun and super nerdy party. Grab your lightsabers and come battle the dark side, or give into it....