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Thursday, May 21, 2026
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Caliente Club & Resorts

Mon, May 25, 2026
Land O Lakes, FL
Monday, May 25, 2026 7-10 PM Charles Fernandes is back for another amazing night of live music. Let Freedom Sing as we celebrate a great Memorial Day weekend with a fun and interactive piano show. Patriotic songs, sing alongs, and all kinds of fun. Spend the holiday weekend partying at Caliente! Con
Caliente Club & Resorts

Fri, May 22, 2026
Land O Lakes, FL
Friday, May 22, 2026 8 PM The vibes will be maxxxed out for our first ever R & B Vibes Friday at Caliente. Put this party on your calendar ASAP. Join us on Friday, May 22 starting at 8 PM. Old school to new school R & B will be flowing from the speakers in the Fiesta Nightclub all night long. Dance,
Caliente Club & Resorts

Thu, May 21, 2026
Land O Lakes, FL
Thursday, May 21, 2026 8 PM Get ready kick off the Memorial Day weekend in a BIG way. Join us for Pop Diva Ladies' Night...a night of stars, stripes, stilettos and DIVAS! Sing, dance, party, and get ready for one of the biggest weekends of the year at your favorite clothing optional destination. Con
CaligulaNY![CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: THE SEXY SPRING LUAU [CUM GET LEI'D COUPLES EDITION] WITH DJ SUPA SOCA](https://www.swing.com/events/mlimages/logos/new_562.png?v=1)
![CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: THE SEXY SPRING LUAU [CUM GET LEI'D COUPLES EDITION] WITH DJ SUPA SOCA](https://www.swing.com/events/mlimages/logos/new_562.png?v=1)
Sat, May 23, 2026
Astoria, NY
CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: THE SEXY SPRING LUAU [CUM GET LEI'D COUPLES EDITION] COME DANCE & PLAY THE NIGHT AWAY HOSTED BY THE NY/NJ SECRET SOCIETY SWINGERS GROUP FREE MALIBU PINEAPPLE RUM SHOTS [WHILE SUPPLIES LAST] SPECIAL GUEST DJ- DJ SUPA SOCA *****THE OUTDOOR PATIO WILL BE OPEN [WEATHER PERMITTING]*
CaligulaNY![CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: "FRIDAY NIGHT CUCKOLD" [MY HUBBY LIKES TO WATCH EDITION] WITH DJ BANTON](https://www.swing.com/events/mlimages/logos/new_562.png?v=1)
![CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: "FRIDAY NIGHT CUCKOLD" [MY HUBBY LIKES TO WATCH EDITION] WITH DJ BANTON](https://www.swing.com/events/mlimages/logos/new_562.png?v=1)
Fri, May 22, 2026
Astoria, NY
CALIGULA NY Presents: In Fridays We Trust FRIDAY CUCKOLD [MY HUBBY LIKES TO WATCH EDITION] A SEXY FALL SHARE A HOTWIFE PARTY ALL NEW FRIDAY NIGHT PLAY PARTY FOR THE WINTER 2026 DOORS OPEN AT ******900PM-400AM****** ****THE OUTDOOR PATIO WILL BE OPEN [WEATHER PERMITTING]**** SPECIAL GUEST DJ-DJ BANTO
CaligulaNY![CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: "ONE NIGHT STAND" [SWINGER FLING THURSDAY EDITION]](https://www.swing.com/events/mlimages/logos/new_562.png?v=1)
![CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: "ONE NIGHT STAND" [SWINGER FLING THURSDAY EDITION]](https://www.swing.com/events/mlimages/logos/new_562.png?v=1)
Thu, May 21, 2026
Astoria, NY
CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: ONE NIGHT STAND [SWINGER FLING THURSDAY EDITION] THURSDAY MAY 21ST 2026 AN EROTIC COUPLES & SINGLES THURSDAY NIGHT SWINGER PARTY FOR THE SPRING 2026 SEXY SPRING PLAY AT CALIGULA NY FOR SEXY SWINGERS WHO WANT A ONE NIGHT STAND IN THE SEXIEST & MOST EROTIC ATMOSPHERE SPECIAL GUES
CHECKMATE NYC

Sat, May 23, 2026
New York, NY
MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND! LET'S DREAM AND PLAY IN WHITE! THE WHITE PARTY A party done in a classy and erotic way! BEAUTIFUL COUPLES AND SINGLE GIRLS NO SINGLE MEN EVER! Dance to our dj playing the best tracks! Girls wear your sexiest dress, highest stilettos, lingerie and outfits of the season while sed
CHECKMATE NYC

Fri, May 22, 2026
New York, NY
EROTICA FRIDAYS! Beautiful cpls and single girls only! We have a high class, swanky setting for a fetish party where all your fetishes and fantasies are welcomed. Full or soft swap, voyeurs, e erotica and much more... New York city’s most fabulous adult lifestyle friday night party. Only prescreened
CHECKMATE NYC

Thu, May 21, 2026
New York, NY
REDUCED ADMISSION FOR CHECKMATE MEMBERS THURSDAY NIGHTS AFTER WORK PARTY! NO SINGLE MEN EVER AT CHECKMATE! We take NO walk-ins or guests. You must have an rsvp if you are a member or have an invitation/ approval and abide by our dress code. Experience a classy and stylish evening of adult fun, Sexy
Club Labyrinth

Fri, May 22, 2026
New York, NY
LABYRINTH IS OPEN EVERY FRIDAY!! - 9PM to 4AM NOW OPEN WEDNESDAY THRU SATURDAY EVERY WEEK. RSVP VIA [email protected] AND MENTION SLS IN YOUR MESSAGE PLEASE VISIT OUR WEBSITE FOR MORE DETAILS ON CHANGES TO THIS EVENT MIDTOWN LOCATION!! CONVENIENTLY LOCATED NEAR GRAND CENTRAL / HERALD SQUARE / U
Club Labyrinth

Thu, May 21, 2026
New York, NY
LABYRINTH IS OPEN EVERY THURSDAY!! - 9PM to 3AM NOW OPEN WEDNESDAY THRU SATURDAY EVERY WEEK. RSVP VIA [email protected] AND MENTION SLS IN YOUR MESSAGE MIDTOWN LOCATION!! CONVENIENTLY LOCATED NEAR GRAND CENTRAL / HERALD SQUARE / UNION SQUARE. LOOK FORWARD TO SEEING YOU ALL THERE! EASY PARKING I
Club Labyrinth

CLUB LABYRINTH * ANYTHING GOES WEDNESDAY * MIDTOWN LOCATION * Couples, Single Men & Single Women
Wed, May 20, 2026
New York, NY
LABYRINTH IS OPEN EVERY WEDNESDAY!! - 9PM to 2AM NOW OPEN WEDNESDAY THRU SATURDAY EVERY WEEK. RSVP VIA [email protected] AND MENTION SLS IN YOUR MESSAGE PLEASE VISIT OUR WEBSITE FOR MORE DETAILS ON CHANGES TO THIS EVENT MIDTOWN LOCATION!! CONVENIENTLY LOCATED NEAR GRAND CENTRAL / HERALD SQUARE
Club Privata

Sat, May 23, 2026
Portland, OR
Whether you love Bond or the gorgeous Bond women who have been immortalized in film, dress to impress for our monthly couples only event! Come enjoy this evening where we’re always close to danger, men have swagger, and women know what happens when we Never, Say Never. . .again. This is our monthly
Club Privata

Fri, May 22, 2026
Portland, OR
Unleash the goddess you are. Slip into something that hugs, sparkles, or teases a little skin. Think sexy cocktail dresses, lace bodysuits, high heels, glittering jewelry, and bold makeup. Let your inner Diva take center stage and dress as the star you are. When you look amazing, you feel wonderfull
Club Privata

Thu, May 21, 2026
Portland, OR
DEVIANCE! is an adult play party where everyone is welcome regardless of their sexual desires or orientations. It welcomes people from the kinky, poly, swinger, queer, trans, and fetish communities. DEVIANCE! is a safe, body-positive, consent-minded space where you can let your hair down and your ki
Colette Houston

Fri, May 22, 2026
Houston, TX
Pantiless Fridays@ colette Houston Doors open at 9pm *Check out membership details on our website or just ask at the door colette Houston 1319 Cypress Creek Pkwy (FM1960 W) Suite 190, Houston, TX 77090 281.781.7221 http://coletteclubs.com/ [email protected]
Colette Houston

Thu, May 21, 2026
Houston, TX
Latin Night @ colette Houston Doors open at 9pm You can request anything and we will try to play it or music of that genre. * Check out membership details on our website or just ask at the door colette Houston 1319 Cypress Creek Pkwy (FM1960 W) Suite 190, Houston, TX 77090 281.781.7221 http://colett
Colette Houston

Wed, May 20, 2026
Houston, TX
Back to the 80s & Newbie Night @ colette Houston Doors open at 9pm New to our world? Come check out what colette has to offer! *Check out membership details on our website or just ask at the door colette Houston 1319 Cypress Creek Pkwy (FM1960 W) Suite 190, Houston, TX 77090 281.781.7221 http://cole
Colette New Orleans
Thu, May 21, 2026
Houston, TX
From $10
9 PM - 2 AM Every Thursday, ignite your soul with the infectious rhythms of Latin Nights! We will be
Colette New Orleans
Thu, May 21, 2026
New Orleans, LA
From $10
9 PM - 2 AM Every fourth Wednesday, we dim the lights and turn up the heat. Step into our seductive
Colette New Orleans

Wed, May 20, 2026
New Orleans, LA
Wicked Wednesdays@ colette NOLA Doors open at 9pm New to our world? Come check out what colette has to offer! *Check out membership details on our website or just ask at the door colette NOLA 822 Gravier Street New Orleans, LA 70112 (504) 588-1517 http://coletteclubs.com/
Colette San Antonio
Sat, May 23, 2026
San Antonio, TX
That's right...take them off! It's colette Pantiless Party tonight. Attention couples: If you come t
Colette San Antonio
Fri, May 22, 2026
San Antonio, TX
From $10
First time visiting colette? Membership is included! Come check out what colette has to offer. FREE
Colette San Antonio

Thu, May 21, 2026
San Antonio, TX
Newbie Night @ colette San Antonio Doors open at 9pm * Check out membership details on our website or just ask at the door colette San Antonio 11431 Perrin Beitel San Antonio, TX 78217
Escape

Fri, May 29, 2026
Cleveland, OH
Fridays are becoming, The Friday Social: Games with Benefits. Think low-pressure vibes, high-stakes fun. Whether you’re a pool shark, a trivia master, or ready to pull a block from our new 'Naughty Jenga' set, it’s all about breaking the ice before the real magic happens. Each Friday, we are going t
Escape

Fri, May 22, 2026
Cleveland, OH
Fridays are becoming, The Friday Social: Games with Benefits. Think low-pressure vibes, high-stakes fun. Whether you’re a pool shark, a trivia master, or ready to pull a block from our new 'Naughty Jenga' set, it’s all about breaking the ice before the real magic happens. Each Friday, we are going t
Escape

Wed, May 20, 2026
Cleveland, OH
We've crafted a relaxed, intimate atmosphere perfect for unwinding and connecting. This is your chance to shed your stress, throw back a few drinks, and socialize with like-minded friends in an environment built for comfort and consent. Your midweek ESCAPE awaits you. Receive an additional $5 discou
Eyz Wide Shut

Sat, May 23, 2026
Tampa, FL
Special Event 7pm-5am
$3 Wells until 9pm
Nightclub - 7pm - 3am
Free Tour of Playrooms Nightly @ 9:30pm
Playrooms - 11pm - 5am
Full Access INCLUDES FREE USE OF 10 PRIVATE, 2 GROUP ROOM, 1 LARGE DUNGEON AND 1 SMALL DUNGEON.
We welcome swingers, exhibitionists, voyeurs, fetishists and lovers of RED HOT
Eyz Wide Shut

Fri, May 22, 2026
Tampa, FL
7pm-5am $3 Wells until 9pm Nightclub - 7pm - 3am Free Tour of Playrooms Nightly @ 9:30pm Playrooms - 11pm - 5am Full Access INCLUDES FREE USE OF 10 PRIVATE, 2 GROUP ROOM, 1 LARGE DUNGEON AND 1 SMALL DUNGEON. We welcome swingers, exhibitionists, voyeurs, fetishists and lovers of RED HOT SEX! ~ Full L
Eyz Wide Shut

Thu, May 21, 2026
Tampa, FL
6pm-2am $3 Wells until 9pm Nightclub - 6pm - 2am Free Tour of Playrooms Nightly @ 8 pm Playrooms - 9pm - 1am Full Access INCLUDES FREE USE OF 10 PRIVATE, 2 GROUP ROOM, 1 LARGE DUNGEON AND 1 SMALL DUNGEON. We welcome swingers, exhibitionists, voyeurs, fetishists and lovers of RED HOT SEX! ~ Full Liqu
Secret Pleasures

Wed, May 27, 2026
Emmaus, PA
Secret Pleasures is located at The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe at 422 Chestnut St, Emmaus, PA 18049. It actually says The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe on the door. Party starts at 12pm and ends at 3pm. See our website for more details: www.secretpleasures.club All guests must be on a guest list, so e
Secret Pleasures

Tue, May 26, 2026
Emmaus, PA
Tuesday Tease Parties are designed for you to try something or someone different. Go explore and have a new amazing experience. Secret Pleasures is located at The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe at 422 Chestnut St, Emmaus, PA 18049 Party starts at 7pm and ends at 12am. See our website for more details:
Secret Pleasures

Thu, May 21, 2026
Emmaus, PA
4 hour party geared to ladies looking to fulfill their fantasies. Secret Pleasures is located at The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe at 422 Chestnut St, Emmaus, PA 18049. It actually says The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe on the door. Party starts at 7pm and ends at 11pm. See our website for more details:
Secrets Hideaway

Sat, May 23, 2026
Kissimmee, FL
Secrets Hideaway Presents: “Saturday Pool Party”Every Saturday 10am-5pmGet ready to indulge in the epitome of Saturday bliss at Secrets Hideaway's exclusive Saturday Pool Party, held every Saturday from 10 am to 5 pm. Shed your inhibitions along with your clothes and immerse yourself in the epitome
Secrets Hideaway

Fri, May 22, 2026
Kissimmee, FL
Secrets Hideaway Presents: “Friday Pool Party”Every Friday 10am-5pmKick off your weekend in style at the Friday Pool Party, an enticing affair hosted every Friday from 10 am to 5 pm at Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa. Immerse yourself in the ultimate daytime indulgence as you join Orlando's most e
Secrets Hideaway

Thu, May 21, 2026
Kissimmee, FL
Secrets Hideaway Presents: “Backyard Boogie Meet & Greet: Swingers Break® Takeover”Thursday May 21Swingers Break® Takeover presents “Backyard Boogie Meet & Greet” on Thursday, May 21st at Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa! Kick off the weekend with a retro-inspired welcome party where Playbo
Shadows

Fri, May 22, 2026
Hyattsville, MD
Sexy Is Red Friday , May 22nd Hours: 9:00 PM. - 5:00 AM Membership to Shadows is required. Membership fee is not included with the entry cost. Membership is Required A high-energy, all-red affair where confidence, style, and luxury set the tone from the moment you arrive. The night is wrapped in ric
Shadows

Thu, May 21, 2026
Hyattsville, MD
Chilling Thursdays Thursday , May 21st Hours: 9:00 PM. - 3:00 AM Membership to Shadows is required. Membership fee is not included with the entry cost. Membership is Required Join us for a nightclub-style bash where sharing is the star of the show! let’s light up the night with good vibes, good musi
Shadows

Wed, May 20, 2026
Hyattsville, MD
Soft Life After Sunset Hosted By Coach Mocha Wednesday , May 20th Hours: 9:00 PM. - 3:00 AM Membership to Shadows is required. Membership fee is not included with the entry cost. Membership is Required Soft Life After Sunset, hosted by Coach Mocha, invites you into a world of smooth vibes, effortles
THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC![THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC PRESENTS: MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND -ALEXIS'S NAUGHTY BIRTHDAY BASH [BRA & BOOTY SHORTS EDITION]](https://www.swing.com/events/mlimages/hostlogos/thediamondclubnyc_20260227_130211.jpg?v=1)
![THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC PRESENTS: MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND -ALEXIS'S NAUGHTY BIRTHDAY BASH [BRA & BOOTY SHORTS EDITION]](https://www.swing.com/events/mlimages/hostlogos/thediamondclubnyc_20260227_130211.jpg?v=1)
Sat, May 23, 2026
New York, NY
THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC PRESENTS: A MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND BIRTHDAY EXPLOSION SATURDAY MAY 23RD 2026 ALEXIS'S NAUGHTY BIRTHDAY BASH [BRAS & BOOTY SHORTS EDITION] CELEBRATING THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC'S SEXY MANAGERS BIRTHDAY COME SHOW HER SOME LOVE A SWINGER MINGLE & PLAY EVENT 900PM-400AM COUPLES & SINGLES W
THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC![THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC PRESENTS: "COMMANDO FRIDAY" [NO PANTIES EDITION] WITH DJ SUPA SOCA](https://www.swing.com/events/mlimages/hostlogos/thediamondclubnyc_20260227_130211.jpg?v=1)
![THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC PRESENTS: "COMMANDO FRIDAY" [NO PANTIES EDITION] WITH DJ SUPA SOCA](https://www.swing.com/events/mlimages/hostlogos/thediamondclubnyc_20260227_130211.jpg?v=1)
Fri, May 22, 2026
New York, NY
THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC PRESENTS: FRIDAY MAY 22ND 2026 COMMANDO FRIDAY [NO PANTIES EDITION] HOSTED BY YESS THE GODDESS & THE TRINI MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND KICKOFF EVENT CELEBRATING THE BIRTHDAY OF YESS THE GODDESS A COUPLES & SINGLES FRIDAY NIGHT SWINGER PLAY PARTY LADIES LETS SEE THOSE SEXY BOTTOMS DJ SU
THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC

Wed, May 20, 2026
New York, NY
THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC PRESENTS: WEDNESDAY MAY 20TH 2026 TEMPTATION WEDNESDAYS [SEXY HUMP NIGHT DEBAUCHERY EDITION] A MIDWEEK SOIREE & PLAY ALL NEW WEDNESDAY NIGHT PLAY PARTY FOR THE SPRING 2026 COME GIVE IN TO YOUR SEXUAL TEMPTATION CASUAL FALL ATTIRE LADIES: DRESS SEXY MEN: CASUAL BUT NEAT 900PM-300
The Florida Treehouse

Sat, May 9, 2026
Lakeland, FL
Meetup with BDSM & swinger friends to chat @ local restaurant. This is a great way to get out and meet others in a safe, public, friendly environment. This is also a terrific icebreaker if you're interested in coming to BDSM Night at the Treehouse. Always the Sunday before BDSM night! THIS IS A MEET
The Florida Treehouse

Fri, May 8, 2026
Lakeland, FL
Rainbow nights are specifically focused on meeting and playing with our rainbow friends, partners, and allies. No specifications on relationship, gender, kink, or sexual identity. Whether you want to connect with your rainbow friends, gender bend, or explore a new facet of your sexuality - this is y
The Florida Treehouse

Sun, May 3, 2026
Lakeland, FL
Celebrate Cinco de Mayo early at our frisky fiesta. We're launching summer with the first pool party of the season! Let's enjoy the warm weather & hang out in the pool. Nacho average pool party. Friends are welcome to bring their beach chairs to sun their buns in the backyard. ~ ATTIRE: Show off you
