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Caliente Club & Resorts
Let Freedom Rave at Caliente!

Let Freedom Rave at Caliente!

Land O Lakes, FL
Saturday, May 23, 2026 8 PM Kick off summer with one of the biggest parties around, and one of the biggest weekends at Caliente! Let Freedom Rave is your ticket to the most fun you can have on a Saturday. Join us all day, poolside and then into the Nightclub. Sugar Vibe is poolside from 1-5 PM and t
Caliente Club & Resorts
R & B Vibes Friday at Caliente!

R & B Vibes Friday at Caliente!

Land O Lakes, FL
Friday, May 22, 2026 8 PM The vibes will be maxxxed out for our first ever R & B Vibes Friday at Caliente. Put this party on your calendar ASAP. Join us on Friday, May 22 starting at 8 PM. Old school to new school R & B will be flowing from the speakers in the Fiesta Nightclub all night long. Dance,
Caliente Club & Resorts
Pop Diva Ladies' Night at Caliente!

Pop Diva Ladies' Night at Caliente!

Land O Lakes, FL
Thursday, May 21, 2026 8 PM Get ready kick off the Memorial Day weekend in a BIG way. Join us for Pop Diva Ladies' Night...a night of stars, stripes, stilettos and DIVAS! Sing, dance, party, and get ready for one of the biggest weekends of the year at your favorite clothing optional destination. Con
CaligulaNY
CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: THE SEXY SPRING LUAU [CUM GET LEI'D COUPLES EDITION] WITH DJ SUPA SOCA

CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: THE SEXY SPRING LUAU [CUM GET LEI'D COUPLES EDITION] WITH DJ SUPA SOCA

Astoria, NY
CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: THE SEXY SPRING LUAU [CUM GET LEI'D COUPLES EDITION] COME DANCE & PLAY THE NIGHT AWAY HOSTED BY THE NY/NJ SECRET SOCIETY SWINGERS GROUP FREE MALIBU PINEAPPLE RUM SHOTS [WHILE SUPPLIES LAST] SPECIAL GUEST DJ- DJ SUPA SOCA *****THE OUTDOOR PATIO WILL BE OPEN [WEATHER PERMITTING]*
CaligulaNY
CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: "FRIDAY NIGHT CUCKOLD" [MY HUBBY LIKES TO WATCH EDITION] WITH DJ BANTON

CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: "FRIDAY NIGHT CUCKOLD" [MY HUBBY LIKES TO WATCH EDITION] WITH DJ BANTON

Astoria, NY
CALIGULA NY Presents: In Fridays We Trust FRIDAY CUCKOLD [MY HUBBY LIKES TO WATCH EDITION] A SEXY FALL SHARE A HOTWIFE PARTY ALL NEW FRIDAY NIGHT PLAY PARTY FOR THE WINTER 2026 DOORS OPEN AT ******900PM-400AM****** ****THE OUTDOOR PATIO WILL BE OPEN [WEATHER PERMITTING]**** SPECIAL GUEST DJ-DJ BANTO
CaligulaNY
CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: "ONE NIGHT STAND" [SWINGER FLING THURSDAY EDITION]

CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: "ONE NIGHT STAND" [SWINGER FLING THURSDAY EDITION]

Astoria, NY
CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: ONE NIGHT STAND [SWINGER FLING THURSDAY EDITION] THURSDAY MAY 21ST 2026 AN EROTIC COUPLES & SINGLES THURSDAY NIGHT SWINGER PARTY FOR THE SPRING 2026 SEXY SPRING PLAY AT CALIGULA NY FOR SEXY SWINGERS WHO WANT A ONE NIGHT STAND IN THE SEXIEST & MOST EROTIC ATMOSPHERE SPECIAL GUES
CHECKMATE NYC
DREAMING IN WHITE, THE WHITE PARTY

DREAMING IN WHITE, THE WHITE PARTY

New York, NY
MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND! LET'S DREAM AND PLAY IN WHITE! THE WHITE PARTY A party done in a classy and erotic way! BEAUTIFUL COUPLES AND SINGLE GIRLS NO SINGLE MEN EVER! Dance to our dj playing the best tracks! Girls wear your sexiest dress, highest stilettos, lingerie and outfits of the season while sed
CHECKMATE NYC
EROTICA FRIDAYS

EROTICA FRIDAYS

New York, NY
EROTICA FRIDAYS! Beautiful cpls and single girls only! We have a high class, swanky setting for a fetish party where all your fetishes and fantasies are welcomed. Full or soft swap, voyeurs, e erotica and much more... New York city’s most fabulous adult lifestyle friday night party. Only prescreened
CHECKMATE NYC
THURSDAY NIGHTS AFTER WORK PARTY

THURSDAY NIGHTS AFTER WORK PARTY

New York, NY
REDUCED ADMISSION FOR CHECKMATE MEMBERS THURSDAY NIGHTS AFTER WORK PARTY! NO SINGLE MEN EVER AT CHECKMATE! We take NO walk-ins or guests. You must have an rsvp if you are a member or have an invitation/ approval and abide by our dress code. Experience a classy and stylish evening of adult fun, Sexy
Club Labyrinth
CLUB LABYRINTH * SWINGING KINK SATURDAY * MIDTOWN LOCATION * COUPLES & SINGLES * OPEN TILL 4AM!!!

CLUB LABYRINTH * SWINGING KINK SATURDAY * MIDTOWN LOCATION * COUPLES & SINGLES * OPEN TILL 4AM!!!

New York, NY
LABYRINTH IS OPEN EVERY SATURDAY!! - 9PM to 4AM NOW OPEN WEDNESDAY THRU SATURDAY EVERY WEEK. RSVP VIA [email protected] AND MENTION SLS IN YOUR MESSAGE PLEASE VISIT OUR WEBSITE FOR MORE DETAILS ON CHANGES TO THIS EVENT MIDTOWN LOCATION!! CONVENIENTLY LOCATED NEAR GRAND CENTRAL / HERALD SQUARE /
Club Labyrinth
CLUB LABYRINTH * DEBAUCHERY *MIDTOWN LOCATION * OPEN TILL 4 * COUPLES & SINGLES WELCOME*

CLUB LABYRINTH * DEBAUCHERY *MIDTOWN LOCATION * OPEN TILL 4 * COUPLES & SINGLES WELCOME*

New York, NY
LABYRINTH IS OPEN EVERY FRIDAY!! - 9PM to 4AM NOW OPEN WEDNESDAY THRU SATURDAY EVERY WEEK. RSVP VIA [email protected] AND MENTION SLS IN YOUR MESSAGE PLEASE VISIT OUR WEBSITE FOR MORE DETAILS ON CHANGES TO THIS EVENT MIDTOWN LOCATION!! CONVENIENTLY LOCATED NEAR GRAND CENTRAL / HERALD SQUARE / U
Club Labyrinth
CLUB LABYRINTH * BIG O PARTY THURSDAYS * COUPLES & SINGLES FORMAT * SINGLE MEN WELCOME! * OPEN TILL 3

CLUB LABYRINTH * BIG O PARTY THURSDAYS * COUPLES & SINGLES FORMAT * SINGLE MEN WELCOME! * OPEN TILL 3

New York, NY
LABYRINTH IS OPEN EVERY THURSDAY!! - 9PM to 3AM NOW OPEN WEDNESDAY THRU SATURDAY EVERY WEEK. RSVP VIA [email protected] AND MENTION SLS IN YOUR MESSAGE MIDTOWN LOCATION!! CONVENIENTLY LOCATED NEAR GRAND CENTRAL / HERALD SQUARE / UNION SQUARE. LOOK FORWARD TO SEEING YOU ALL THERE! EASY PARKING I
Club Privata
The Bond Party - Single Ladies & Couples Only

The Bond Party - Single Ladies & Couples Only

Portland, OR
Whether you love Bond or the gorgeous Bond women who have been immortalized in film, dress to impress for our monthly couples only event! Come enjoy this evening where we’re always close to danger, men have swagger, and women know what happens when we Never, Say Never. . .again. This is our monthly
Club Privata
Devine Diva

Devine Diva

Portland, OR
Unleash the goddess you are. Slip into something that hugs, sparkles, or teases a little skin. Think sexy cocktail dresses, lace bodysuits, high heels, glittering jewelry, and bold makeup. Let your inner Diva take center stage and dress as the star you are. When you look amazing, you feel wonderfull
Club Privata
DEVIANCE!

DEVIANCE!

Portland, OR
DEVIANCE! is an adult play party where everyone is welcome regardless of their sexual desires or orientations. It welcomes people from the kinky, poly, swinger, queer, trans, and fetish communities. DEVIANCE! is a safe, body-positive, consent-minded space where you can let your hair down and your ki
Colette Houston
Detention After Dark@ colette Houston

Detention After Dark@ colette Houston

Houston, TX
Detention After Dark@ colette Houston Doors open at 9pm Class may be over, but the real fun starts after the bell. Join us at colette for Detention After Dark, where the classroom rules get a little more… flexible. Think plaid miniskirts, teachers’ pets, naughty students, and just enough mischief to
Colette Houston
Pantiless Fridays@ colette Houston

Pantiless Fridays@ colette Houston

Houston, TX
Pantiless Fridays@ colette Houston Doors open at 9pm *Check out membership details on our website or just ask at the door colette Houston 1319 Cypress Creek Pkwy (FM1960 W) Suite 190, Houston, TX 77090 281.781.7221 http://coletteclubs.com/ [email protected]
Colette Houston
Latin Night @ colette Houston

Latin Night @ colette Houston

Houston, TX
Latin Night @ colette Houston Doors open at 9pm You can request anything and we will try to play it or music of that genre. * Check out membership details on our website or just ask at the door colette Houston 1319 Cypress Creek Pkwy (FM1960 W) Suite 190, Houston, TX 77090 281.781.7221 http://colett
Colette San Antonio
Pantiless Party

Pantiless Party

San Antonio, TX
That's right...take them off! It's colette Pantiless Party tonight. Attention couples: If you come t
Colette San Antonio
Newbie Night

Newbie Night

San Antonio, TX
From $10
First time visiting colette? Membership is included! Come check out what colette has to offer. FREE
Colette San Antonio
Newbie Night @ colette San Antonio

Newbie Night @ colette San Antonio

San Antonio, TX
Newbie Night @ colette San Antonio Doors open at 9pm * Check out membership details on our website or just ask at the door colette San Antonio 11431 Perrin Beitel San Antonio, TX 78217
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Lifestyle-Friendly Travel: Find the Right Stay

Columbus, OH
Traveling for lifestyle events should feel comfortable, private, and stress-free. This event is designed for couples and individuals looking for better accommodation options when attending meetups, parties, and lifestyle getaways. Finding the right place to stay can make a big difference in your ove
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Lifestyle Travel Connections & Travel Request

Columbus, OH
Looking for other lifestyle travelers to connect with before your next getaway? SwingHavenBnB recently launched a new “Travel Request” feature designed to help verified members connect with other couples and travelers planning similar trips, vacations, resort stays, RV adventures, lifestyle events,
Secret Pleasures
Lunchtime Play Party - 12pm to 3pm  -   School Gir

Lunchtime Play Party - 12pm to 3pm - School Gir

Emmaus, PA
Secret Pleasures is located at The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe at 422 Chestnut St, Emmaus, PA 18049. It actually says The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe on the door. Party starts at 12pm and ends at 3pm. See our website for more details: www.secretpleasures.club All guests must be on a guest list, so e
Secret Pleasures
Daisy Dukes Tuesday Tease Party 7PM-12AM New Pricing

Daisy Dukes Tuesday Tease Party 7PM-12AM New Pricing

Emmaus, PA
Tuesday Tease Parties are designed for you to try something or someone different. Go explore and have a new amazing experience. Secret Pleasures is located at The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe at 422 Chestnut St, Emmaus, PA 18049 Party starts at 7pm and ends at 12am. See our website for more details:
Secret Pleasures
Fantasy Fulfillment Party

Fantasy Fulfillment Party

Emmaus, PA
4 hour party geared to ladies looking to fulfill their fantasies. Secret Pleasures is located at The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe at 422 Chestnut St, Emmaus, PA 18049. It actually says The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe on the door. Party starts at 7pm and ends at 11pm. See our website for more details:
Secrets Hideaway
Saturday Pool Party AND Forbidden Paradise: Swingers Break® Takeover

Saturday Pool Party AND Forbidden Paradise: Swingers Break® Takeover

Kissimmee, FL
Secrets Hideaway Presents: “Saturday Pool Party”Every Saturday 10am-5pmGet ready to indulge in the epitome of Saturday bliss at Secrets Hideaway's exclusive Saturday Pool Party, held every Saturday from 10 am to 5 pm. Shed your inhibitions along with your clothes and immerse yourself in the epitome
Secrets Hideaway
Friday Pool Party AND Flower Power: Swingers Break® Takeover

Friday Pool Party AND Flower Power: Swingers Break® Takeover

Kissimmee, FL
Secrets Hideaway Presents: “Friday Pool Party”Every Friday 10am-5pmKick off your weekend in style at the Friday Pool Party, an enticing affair hosted every Friday from 10 am to 5 pm at Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa. Immerse yourself in the ultimate daytime indulgence as you join Orlando's most e
Secrets Hideaway
Backyard Boogie Meet & Greet: Swingers Break® Takeover

Backyard Boogie Meet & Greet: Swingers Break® Takeover

Kissimmee, FL
Secrets Hideaway Presents: “Backyard Boogie Meet & Greet: Swingers Break® Takeover”Thursday May 21Swingers Break® Takeover presents “Backyard Boogie Meet & Greet” on Thursday, May 21st at Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa! Kick off the weekend with a retro-inspired welcome party where Playbo
Shadows
P-Valley Amateur Night Hosted by Ronnie & Al

P-Valley Amateur Night Hosted by Ronnie & Al

Hyattsville, MD
P-Valley Amateur Night Hosted by Ronnie & Al Saturday , May 23rd Hours: 9:00PM - 5:00AM Membership to Shadows is required. Membership fee is not included with the entry cost. Membership is Required Get ready for a high-energy night at P-Valley Amateur Night, hosted by The Chocolate Couple — Ronnie &
Shadows
Sexy Is Red

Sexy Is Red

Hyattsville, MD
Sexy Is Red Friday , May 22nd Hours: 9:00 PM. - 5:00 AM Membership to Shadows is required. Membership fee is not included with the entry cost. Membership is Required A high-energy, all-red affair where confidence, style, and luxury set the tone from the moment you arrive. The night is wrapped in ric
Shadows
Chilling Thursdays

Chilling Thursdays

Hyattsville, MD
Chilling Thursdays Thursday , May 21st Hours: 9:00 PM. - 3:00 AM Membership to Shadows is required. Membership fee is not included with the entry cost. Membership is Required Join us for a nightclub-style bash where sharing is the star of the show! let’s light up the night with good vibes, good musi
The Florida Treehouse
In 2 DaysBDSM NIGHT

BDSM NIGHT

Lakeland, FL
Enjoy the best of both worlds - BDSM + Swingers in one night! Whether you are a curious beginner or experienced - this unique evening offers something for everyone. Explore your limits in a sexy yet safe environment. The Treehouse is honored to feature BDSM DMs: The Celt, Domina, Satan's Daughter, Z
The Florida Treehouse
COFFEE & COCOA MUNCH

COFFEE & COCOA MUNCH

Lakeland, FL
Meetup with BDSM & swinger friends to chat @ local restaurant. This is a great way to get out and meet others in a safe, public, friendly environment. This is also a terrific icebreaker if you're interested in coming to BDSM Night at the Treehouse. Always the Sunday before BDSM night! THIS IS A MEET
The Florida Treehouse
FRISKY FIESTA POOL PARTY

FRISKY FIESTA POOL PARTY

Lakeland, FL
Celebrate Cinco de Mayo early at our frisky fiesta. We're launching summer with the first pool party of the season! Let's enjoy the warm weather & hang out in the pool. Nacho average pool party. Friends are welcome to bring their beach chairs to sun their buns in the backyard. ~ ATTIRE: Show off you
The Power Exchange
MEMORIAL FREAKEND SLUT SATURDAY

MEMORIAL FREAKEND SLUT SATURDAY

San Francisco, CA
Do you crave a night where desire isn’t just allowed… but celebrated? SLUT SATURDAY is where fantasies breathe, inhibitions fall away, and the boldest versions of ourselves rise to the surface. Whether you're a proud slut, exploring your sensuality, or simply drawn to the magnetic energy of uninhibi
The Power Exchange
FREAK FRIDAY

FREAK FRIDAY

San Francisco, CA
Welcome to Freak Friday, where every kind of freak is celebrated and set free. Power Exchange is the ultimate adult playground for those who dare to explore their wildest desires. Step inside and let your fantasies take over—the night belongs to you, and what happens here is limited only by your ima
The Power Exchange
DARK DESIRES

DARK DESIRES

San Francisco, CA
Step into Dark Desires, a night where temptation stirs and seduction begins after dark. This is your invitation to slip into the shadows, indulge your cravings, and explore the decadent mysteries of Power Exchange. On the 1st & 3rd Thursdays of every month, the doors open to a world where inhibition
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