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Thursday, May 14, 2026
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CaligulaNY![CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: "MILLIE'S BIRTHDAY BASH [GLITZ & GLAMOUR EDITION] WITH DJ SUPA SOCA](https://www.swing.com/events/mlimages/logos/new_562.png?v=1)
![CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: "MILLIE'S BIRTHDAY BASH [GLITZ & GLAMOUR EDITION] WITH DJ SUPA SOCA](https://www.swing.com/events/mlimages/logos/new_562.png?v=1)
Sat, May 16, 2026
Astoria, NY
CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: A MILKSHAKE PRODUCTION LUST LANGUAGE DEBUT EVENT MILLIE'S BIRTHDAY BASH [GLITZ & GLAMOUR EDITION] COME DANCE & PLAY THE NIGHT AWAY IN THE MOST EROTIC ATMOSPHERE COME CELEBRATE MILLIE THE BIRTHDAY GIRL A HUGE TURNOUT IS EXPECTED SO ARRIVE EARLY LET'S SEE YOUR SEXIEST GLITZ & GLA
CaligulaNY![CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: "THE SPRING FLING" [NYMPHO BUNNY EDITION] HOSTED BY MISSY KING WITH DJ SUPA SOCA](https://www.swing.com/events/mlimages/logos/new_562.png?v=1)
![CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: "THE SPRING FLING" [NYMPHO BUNNY EDITION] HOSTED BY MISSY KING WITH DJ SUPA SOCA](https://www.swing.com/events/mlimages/logos/new_562.png?v=1)
Fri, May 15, 2026
Astoria, NY
CALIGULA NY Presents: In Fridays We Trust THE SPRING FLING [NYMPHO BUNNY EDITION] HOSTED BY MISSY KING FROM THE MK SWINGERS GROUP A COUPLES & SINGLES SEXY SPRING FLING FRIDAY NIGHT PLAYFEST FRIDAY NIGHTS HAVE NEVER BEEN HOTTER [OVER 200 PEOPLE SHOWED UP FOR THE LAST MK SWINGERS EVENT] COME FEEL THE
CaligulaNY![CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: "ONE NIGHT STAND" [SWINGER FLING THURSDAY EDITION] WITH DJ SUPA SOCA](https://www.swing.com/events/mlimages/logos/new_562.png?v=1)
![CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: "ONE NIGHT STAND" [SWINGER FLING THURSDAY EDITION] WITH DJ SUPA SOCA](https://www.swing.com/events/mlimages/logos/new_562.png?v=1)
CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: "ONE NIGHT STAND" [SWINGER FLING THURSDAY EDITION] WITH DJ SUPA SOCA
Thu, May 14, 2026
Astoria, NY
CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: ONE NIGHT STAND [SWINGER FLING THURSDAY EDITION] THURSDAY MAY 14TH 2026 AN EROTIC COUPLES & SINGLES THURSDAY NIGHT SWINGER PARTY FOR THE SPRING 2026 SEXY SPRING PLAY AT CALIGULA NY FOR SEXY SWINGERS WHO WANT A ONE NIGHT STAND IN THE SEXIEST & MOST EROTIC ATMOSPHERE SPECIAL GUES
CHECKMATE NYC

Sat, May 16, 2026
New York, NY
JOIN US TONIGHT, LET'S CELEBRATE THE PIECE OF LINGERIE THAT DRIVES EVERYONE CRAZY! A party done in a classy and erotic way! BEAUTIFUL COUPLES AND SINGLE GIRLS NO SINGLE MEN EVER! Dance to our dj playing the best tracks! Girls wear your sexiest dress, highest stilettos, lingerie and outfits of the se
CHECKMATE NYC

Fri, May 15, 2026
New York, NY
EROTICA FRIDAYS! Beautiful cpls and single girls only! We have a high class, swanky setting for a fetish party where all your fetishes and fantasies are welcomed. Full or soft swap, voyeurs, e erotica and much more... New York city’s most fabulous adult lifestyle friday night party. Only prescreened
CHECKMATE NYC

Thu, May 14, 2026
New York, NY
REDUCED ADMISSION FOR CHECKMATE MEMBERS THURSDAY NIGHTS AFTER WORK PARTY! NO SINGLE MEN EVER AT CHECKMATE! We take NO walk-ins or guests. You must have an rsvp if you are a member or have an invitation/ approval and abide by our dress code. Experience a classy and stylish evening of adult fun, Sexy
Club Chemistry

Thu, May 7, 2026
Madison, TN
Come party with us at Club Chemistry! ? We are a private, members-only upscale club, proudly woman-led and dedicated to creating a stylish, comfortable, and secure environment for open-minded adults. Our discreet security team ensures the privacy and safety you deserve from the moment you arrive. Me
Club Chemistry

Sat, May 23, 2026
From $40
Bikinis & Board Shorts Get ready for the hottest summer party at Club Chemistry. Bikinis & Board Sho
Club Chemistry

Thu, May 14, 2026
Madison, TN
Come party with us at Club Chemistry! ? We are a private, members-only upscale club, proudly woman-led and dedicated to creating a stylish, comfortable, and secure environment for open-minded adults. Our discreet security team ensures the privacy and safety you deserve from the moment you arrive. Me
Club Kink Jacksonville

Wed, May 6, 2026
Jacksonville, FL
Jacksonville Lifestyle - Club Kink Jacksonville - Private Members Only Club Schedule your REQUIRED ORIENTATION now to be eligible for Membership! Open Every Wed- Fri- Sat, FREE VIP upgrade for all Members on Wednesdays! WILD WEDNESDAY Step Into Your Fantasy YOUR VIBE ! Social Area Serendipity Lounge
Club Kink Jacksonville

Sat, May 2, 2026
Jacksonville, FL
Jacksonville Lifestyle - Club Kink Jacksonville - Elite, Inclusive, Private Membership Only Club Open Every Wed- Fri- Sat _______________________________________________________ Kentucky Derby DRESS-UP Nite in Lounge Hat Contest at 11pm 8 Theme Rooms/Dungeons till 2am Belly Button Lounge Mix and Min
Club Kink Jacksonville

Wed, May 13, 2026
Jacksonville, FL
Jacksonville Lifestyle - Club Kink Jacksonville - Private Members Only Club Schedule your REQUIRED ORIENTATION now to be eligible for Membership! Open Every Wed- Fri- Sat, FREE VIP upgrade for all Members on Wednesdays! WILD WEDNESDAY Step Into Your Fantasy YOUR VIBE ! Social Area Serendipity Lounge
Club Labyrinth

Fri, May 15, 2026
New York, NY
LABYRINTH IS OPEN EVERY FRIDAY!! - 9PM to 4AM NOW OPEN WEDNESDAY THRU SATURDAY EVERY WEEK. RSVP VIA [email protected] AND MENTION SLS IN YOUR MESSAGE PLEASE VISIT OUR WEBSITE FOR MORE DETAILS ON CHANGES TO THIS EVENT MIDTOWN LOCATION!! CONVENIENTLY LOCATED NEAR GRAND CENTRAL / HERALD SQUARE / U
Club Labyrinth

Thu, May 14, 2026
New York, NY
LABYRINTH IS OPEN EVERY THURSDAY!! - 9PM to 3AM NOW OPEN WEDNESDAY THRU SATURDAY EVERY WEEK. RSVP VIA [email protected] AND MENTION SLS IN YOUR MESSAGE MIDTOWN LOCATION!! CONVENIENTLY LOCATED NEAR GRAND CENTRAL / HERALD SQUARE / UNION SQUARE. LOOK FORWARD TO SEEING YOU ALL THERE! EASY PARKING I
Club Labyrinth

CLUB LABYRINTH * ANYTHING GOES WEDNESDAY * MIDTOWN LOCATION * Couples, Single Men & Single Women
Wed, May 13, 2026
New York, NY
LABYRINTH IS OPEN EVERY WEDNESDAY!! - 9PM to 2AM NOW OPEN WEDNESDAY THRU SATURDAY EVERY WEEK. RSVP VIA [email protected] AND MENTION SLS IN YOUR MESSAGE PLEASE VISIT OUR WEBSITE FOR MORE DETAILS ON CHANGES TO THIS EVENT MIDTOWN LOCATION!! CONVENIENTLY LOCATED NEAR GRAND CENTRAL / HERALD SQUARE
Colette Houston

Fri, May 15, 2026
Houston, TX
Boots and Bling It's a Cowgirl Thing @ colette Houston Doors open at 9pm *Check out membership details on our website or just ask at the door colette Houston 1319 Cypress Creek Pkwy (FM1960 W) Suite 190, Houston, TX 77090 281.781.7221 http://coletteclubs.com/ [email protected]
Colette Houston

Thu, May 14, 2026
Houston, TX
Latin Night @ colette Houston Doors open at 9pm You can request anything and we will try to play it or music of that genre. * Check out membership details on our website or just ask at the door colette Houston 1319 Cypress Creek Pkwy (FM1960 W) Suite 190, Houston, TX 77090 281.781.7221 http://colett
Colette Houston

Wed, May 13, 2026
Houston, TX
Back to the 80s & Newbie Night @ colette Houston Doors open at 9pm New to our world? Come check out what colette has to offer! *Check out membership details on our website or just ask at the door colette Houston 1319 Cypress Creek Pkwy (FM1960 W) Suite 190, Houston, TX 77090 281.781.7221 http://cole
Colette New Orleans
Thu, May 14, 2026
Houston, TX
From $10
9 PM - 2 AM Every Thursday, ignite your soul with the infectious rhythms of Latin Nights! We will be
Colette New Orleans
Thu, May 14, 2026
New Orleans, LA
From $10
9 PM - 2 AM New to our world? Come check out what colette has to offer.FREE one-night membership for
Colette New Orleans

Wed, May 13, 2026
New Orleans, LA
Newbie Night @ colette NOLA Doors open at 9pm New to our world? Come check out what colette has to offer! *Check out membership details on our website or just ask at the door colette NOLA 822 Gravier Street New Orleans, LA 70112 (504) 588-1517 http://coletteclubs.com/
Colette San Antonio
Sat, May 16, 2026
San Antonio, TX
From $20
Saddle up and get ready to ride into a night of Western glam at colettes Boots and BlingIts a Cowgi
Colette San Antonio
Fri, May 15, 2026
San Antonio, TX
From $10
Every Thursday. Don't miss this excellent opportunity to experience colette at an incredible price.
Colette San Antonio

Thu, May 14, 2026
San Antonio, TX
Thirty Dollar Thursdays@ colette San Antonio Doors open at 9pm * Check out membership details on our website or just ask at the door colette San Antonio 11431 Perrin Beitel San Antonio, TX 78217
Comin’ Out Swinging Podcast
Thu, May 14, 2026
Westlake, OH
“Cum n’ Go” free daytime event (Westlake area hotel). I literally get off when guys drop a huge load on me. Please let me be your cum dump. This one is during the day for anyone who can sneak away for some naughty fun (ssshhh… it'll be our secret. So hot!) You can feel on my big tits and huge ass, y
Escape

Sat, May 16, 2026
Cleveland, OH
Where the attire drops as the night heats up. Receive $10 off if dressed in cocktail wear. An additional $5 cash discount still applies. (Discount at the door only.) We will be announcing a King & Queen with a chance to receive $100 credit to use towards other events and membership. Welcome to the N
Escape

Fri, May 15, 2026
Cleveland, OH
Fridays are becoming, The Friday Social: Games with Benefits. Think low-pressure vibes, high-stakes fun. Whether you’re a pool shark, a trivia master, or ready to pull a block from our new 'Naughty Jenga' set, it’s all about breaking the ice before the real magic happens. Each Friday, we are going t
Escape

Wed, May 13, 2026
Cleveland, OH
We've crafted a relaxed, intimate atmosphere perfect for unwinding and connecting. This is your chance to shed your stress, throw back a few drinks, and socialize with like-minded friends in an environment built for comfort and consent. Your midweek ESCAPE awaits you. Receive an additional $5 discou
Eyz Wide Shut

Sat, May 16, 2026
Tampa, FL
7pm-5am $3 Wells until 9pm Nightclub - 7pm - 3am Free Tour of Playrooms Nightly @ 9:30pm Playrooms - 11pm - 5am Full Access INCLUDES FREE USE OF 10 PRIVATE, 2 GROUP ROOM, 1 LARGE DUNGEON AND 1 SMALL DUNGEON. We welcome swingers, exhibitionists, voyeurs, fetishists and lovers of RED HOT SEX! ~ Full L
Eyz Wide Shut

Fri, May 15, 2026
Tampa, FL
7pm-5am $3 Wells until 9pm Nightclub - 7pm - 3am Free Tour of Playrooms Nightly @ 9:30pm Playrooms - 11pm - 5am Full Access INCLUDES FREE USE OF 10 PRIVATE, 2 GROUP ROOM, 1 LARGE DUNGEON AND 1 SMALL DUNGEON. We welcome swingers, exhibitionists, voyeurs, fetishists and lovers of RED HOT SEX! ~ Full L
Eyz Wide Shut

Thu, May 14, 2026
Tampa, FL
6pm-2am $3 Wells until 9pm Nightclub - 6pm - 2am Free Tour of Playrooms Nightly @ 8 pm Playrooms - 9pm - 1am Full Access INCLUDES FREE USE OF 10 PRIVATE, 2 GROUP ROOM, 1 LARGE DUNGEON AND 1 SMALL DUNGEON. We welcome swingers, exhibitionists, voyeurs, fetishists and lovers of RED HOT SEX! ~ Full Liqu
Secret Pleasures

Sat, May 16, 2026
Emmaus, PA
Secret Pleasures is located at The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe at 422 Chestnut St, Emmaus, PA 18049 Party starts at 9pm and ends at 3am. See our website for more details: www.secretpleasures.club All guests must be on a guest list, so either click Attend Event below or Free SLS members can email par
Secret Pleasures

Fri, May 15, 2026
Emmaus, PA
Secret Pleasures is located at The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe at 422 Chestnut St, Emmaus, PA 18049 Party starts at 9pm and ends at 3am. See our website for more details: www.secretpleasures.club All guests must be on a guest list somewhere, so either click Attend Event below or Free SLS members can
Secret Pleasures

Thu, May 14, 2026
Emmaus, PA
4 hour party geared to ladies looking to fulfill their fantasies. Secret Pleasures is located at The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe at 422 Chestnut St, Emmaus, PA 18049. It actually says The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe on the door. Party starts at 7pm and ends at 11pm. See our website for more details:
Secrets Hideaway

Sat, May 16, 2026
Kissimmee, FL
Secrets Hideaway Presents: “Saturday Pool Party”Every Saturday 10am-5pmGet ready to indulge in the epitome of Saturday bliss at Secrets Hideaway's exclusive Saturday Pool Party, held every Saturday from 10 am to 5 pm. Shed your inhibitions along with your clothes and immerse yourself in the epitome
Secrets Hideaway

Fri, May 15, 2026
Kissimmee, FL
Secrets Hideaway Presents: “Friday Pool Party”Every Friday 10am-5pmKick off your weekend in style at the Friday Pool Party, an enticing affair hosted every Friday from 10 am to 5 pm at Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa. Immerse yourself in the ultimate daytime indulgence as you join Orlando's most e
Secrets Hideaway

Thu, May 14, 2026
Kissimmee, FL
Secrets Hideaway™ Presents:“Meet & Greet Newbie Night"Every Thursday at Secrets Hideaway™Every Thursday night, Secrets Hideaway invites you to dive into a world of exciting possibilities at our Meet & Greet Newbie Night. If you're new to the lifestyle or simply looking to expand your circle
Shadows

Fri, May 15, 2026
Hyattsville, MD
Bad Nurses & The Doctor's Prescription Glow Party Friday , May 15th Hours: 9:00 PM. - 5:00 AM Membership to Shadows is required. Membership fee is not included with the entry cost. Membership is Required Bad Nurses & The Doctor’s Prescription Glow Party brings neon lights, bold looks, and high-energ
Shadows

Thu, May 14, 2026
Hyattsville, MD
Jane & Friends Thursday , May 14th Hours: 9:00 PM. - 3:00 AM Membership to Shadows is required. Membership fee is not included with the entry cost. Membership is Required Step into the heat at the Jane and Friends Party—the ultimate playground for the woman who loves to command a room full of elite
Shadows

Wed, May 13, 2026
Hyattsville, MD
Lipstick & Lace Hosted By Coach Mocha Wednesday , May 13th Hours: 9:00 PM. - 3:00 AM Membership to Shadows is required. Membership fee is not included with the entry cost. Membership is Required Lipstick & Lace, hosted by Coach Mocha, is all about playful elegance with a touch of mystery. Think soft
sinnersparadise

Sat, May 16, 2026
Philadelphia, PA
Description Tonight isn't just about my birthday - it's about a vision that turned into a whole experience, I don't want to be celebrated as a man who just throw parties... I created a vibe, a movement, a place where people can step out of their everyday lives and into something unforgettable. Sinne
sinnersparadise

Fri, May 15, 2026
Philadelphia, PA
Description Party Like a PornSTAR in Paradise 10pm-5am, RSVP NOW Event details: Party Like A PORNSTAR In Paradise! Tonight We Call THE REAL FREAKS!!! Calling All Ladies, Couples & Men That Can GO ALL NIGHT!!!!! Let's Get Sexy & Lets PARTY LIKE PORNSTARS!!!!! Party like a legend in Paradise - no rule
sinnersparadise

Thu, May 14, 2026
Philadelphia, PA
Description If you haven't been here on a Thursday night you're missing out!! No guess work, no hoping, no hunting, no leaving disappointed. This is the night that's guaranteed, it's like death and taxes, plan to CUM RSVP NOW and be here!!! Event details: Tonight, the Fun is GUARANTEED, RSVP now don
SpectrumABQ
Wed, May 20, 2026
Albuquerque, NM
SpectrumABQ Meet and Greet Come Join us from 6-8 pm at Stone Face in the NE Heights.( 8201 San Pedro
SpectrumABQ

Sat, May 16, 2026
Albuquerque, NM
SpectrumABQPresentsSchools Out For SummerSchool is out for summer. This will be your last chance to show your teacher how you feel. Come dressed as a sexy student or teacher and break some rules. There will be punishment for those that do. This is a swinger party, but be warned, the principle likes
SpectrumABQ

Thu, May 14, 2026
Albuquerque, NM
This is a FREE EVENT at the Dungeon that is open to the community! This is a special opportunity to hang out and see our amazing dungeon space in a much more relaxed and quieter setting than a restaurant. If you prefer a smaller, low-key atmosphere, this event is definitely for you. What is Provided
THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC

Wed, May 20, 2026
New York, NY
THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC PRESENTS: WEDNESDAY MAY 20TH 2026 TEMPTATION WEDNESDAYS [SEXY HUMP NIGHT DEBAUCHERY EDITION] A MIDWEEK SOIREE & PLAY ALL NEW WEDNESDAY NIGHT PLAY PARTY FOR THE SPRING 2026 COME GIVE IN TO YOUR SEXUAL TEMPTATION CASUAL FALL ATTIRE LADIES: DRESS SEXY MEN: CASUAL BUT NEAT 900PM-300
THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC![THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC PRESENTS: SPICY SWINGER SUNDAYS [SEXY SPRING EDITION]](https://www.swing.com/events/mlimages/hostlogos/thediamondclubnyc_20260227_130211.jpg?v=1)
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Sun, May 17, 2026
New York, NY
THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC PRESENTS: SUNDAY MAY 17TH 2026 SPICY SWINGER SUNDAYS [SEXY SPRING EDITION] COME EARLY LEAVE HAPPY THE ULTIMATE SUNDAY NIGHT PLAY PARTY WINTER 2026 HAS NEVER BEEN HOTTER 800PM-200AM COUPLES & SINGLES WELCOME RELEASE YOUR INHIBITIONS EXPLORE YOUR FANTASIES MILD TO WILD BYOB FREE M
THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC

Wed, May 13, 2026
New York, NY
THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC PRESENTS: WEDNESDAY MAY 13TH 2026 TEMPTATION WEDNESDAYS [SEXY HUMP NIGHT DEBAUCHERY EDITION] A MIDWEEK SOIREE & PLAY ALL NEW WEDNESDAY NIGHT PLAY PARTY FOR THE SPRING 2026 COME GIVE IN TO YOUR SEXUAL TEMPTATION CASUAL FALL ATTIRE LADIES: DRESS SEXY MEN: CASUAL BUT NEAT 900PM-300
The Florida Treehouse

Sat, May 9, 2026
Lakeland, FL
Meetup with BDSM & swinger friends to chat @ local restaurant. This is a great way to get out and meet others in a safe, public, friendly environment. This is also a terrific icebreaker if you're interested in coming to BDSM Night at the Treehouse. Always the Sunday before BDSM night! THIS IS A MEET
The Florida Treehouse

Fri, May 8, 2026
Lakeland, FL
Rainbow nights are specifically focused on meeting and playing with our rainbow friends, partners, and allies. No specifications on relationship, gender, kink, or sexual identity. Whether you want to connect with your rainbow friends, gender bend, or explore a new facet of your sexuality - this is y
The Florida Treehouse

Sun, May 3, 2026
Lakeland, FL
Celebrate Cinco de Mayo early at our frisky fiesta. We're launching summer with the first pool party of the season! Let's enjoy the warm weather & hang out in the pool. Nacho average pool party. Friends are welcome to bring their beach chairs to sun their buns in the backyard. ~ ATTIRE: Show off you
