Lifestyle Events Calendar
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Caliente Club & Resorts
Sat, Apr 4, 2026
Land O Lakes, FL
Saturday, April 4, 2026 8 PM Grab your best sidekick, partner, or hype man and join us for a legendary night! Special guest DJ Moe Green returns along with LUST for Legends of the Ring on Saturday, April 4 beginning at 8 PM. The sexiest wrestlers, fans, and all that come with wrestling will be in at
Caliente Club & Resorts
Thu, Apr 2, 2026
Land O Lakes, FL
Thursday, April 2, 2026 8 PM Hop on over to one of the bounciest nights of the week. It's Bunny Love Ladies' Night at Caliente on Thursday, April 2 starting at 8 PM. Cotton tails, sexy tails, and baskets full of surprises. Ladies' night as it should be! Contact us for Day and Evening Passes or to Bo
Caliente Club & Resorts
Thu, May 7, 2026
Land O Lakes, FL
Thursday, May 7, 2026 8 PM Anyone ready for ladies' night that combines a little spice with soft colors, scents, and sweetness? Then join us for Sweet Dreams of Pastel Ladies' Night on Thursday, May 7. Live music in the Piano Bar from 7 PM, with DJ Ian opening the Nightclub at 8 PM. Contact us for D
CaligulaNY
Sat, Mar 28, 2026
Astoria, NY
CALIGULA NY PRESENTS : CUM GET MY POT OF GOLD COUPLES PLAYFEST SEXY GREEN ATTIRE COUPLES EVENT THE HOTTEST SATURDAY NIGHT COUPLES PLAY PARTY IN THE TRI-STATE AREA CONTINUES HOSTED BY THE NY/NJ SECRET SOCIETY SWINGERS GROUP FREE GOLDSCHLAGER CINNAMON SCHNAPPS SHOTS [WHILE SUPPLIES LAST] SPECIAL GUEST
CaligulaNY
Fri, May 8, 2026
Astoria, NY
CALIGULA NY Presents: In Fridays We Trust NYMPHOMANIA FRIDAY 2026 --THE ULTIMATE COUPLES AND SINGLES FRIDAY NIGHT PLAY PARTY RETURNS [HOT AND HORNY EDITION] SEXY SPRING FRIDAY NIGHT DOORS OPEN AT 900PM-400AM THE OUTDOOR PATIO 2026 WILL BE OPEN SPECIAL GUEST DJ-DJ SUPA SOCA LAST MONTH 150 PEOPLE SHOW
CaligulaNY
CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: "ONE NIGHT STAND" [SWINGER FLING THURSDAY EDITION] WITH DJ SUPA SOCA
Thu, May 7, 2026
Astoria, NY
CALIGULA NY PRESENTS: ONE NIGHT STAND [SWINGER FLING THURSDAY EDITION] THURSDAY MAY 7TH 2026 AN EROTIC COUPLES & SINGLES THURSDAY NIGHT SWINGER PARTY FOR THE SPRING 2026 SEXY SPRING PLAY AT CALIGULA NY FOR SEXY SWINGERS WHO WANT A ONE NIGHT STAND IN THE SEXIEST & MOST EROTIC ATMOSPHERE SPECIAL GUEST
CHECKMATE NYC
Sat, Mar 28, 2026
New York, NY
PIGTAILS AND LINGERIE! A party done in a classy and erotic way! BEAUTIFUL COUPLES AND SINGLE GIRLS NO SINGLE MEN EVER! Dance to our dj playing the best tracks! Girls wear your sexiest dress, highest stilettos, lingerie and outfits of the season while seducing everyone in the dance floor. As always n
CHECKMATE NYC
Fri, May 8, 2026
New York, NY
EROTICA FRIDAYS! Beautiful cpls and single girls only! We have a high class, swanky setting for a fetish party where all your fetishes and fantasies are welcomed. Full or soft swap, voyeurs, e erotica and much more... New York city’s most fabulous adult lifestyle friday night party. Only prescreened
CHECKMATE NYC
Thu, May 7, 2026
New York, NY
REDUCED ADMISSION FOR CHECKMATE MEMBERS THURSDAY NIGHTS AFTER WORK PARTY! NO SINGLE MEN EVER AT CHECKMATE! We take NO walk-ins or guests. You must have an rsvp if you are a member or have an invitation/ approval and abide by our dress code. Experience a classy and stylish evening of adult fun, Sexy
Club Chemistry
Thu, Apr 2, 2026
Madison, TN
Come party with us at Club Chemistry! ? We are a private, members-only upscale club, proudly woman-led and dedicated to creating a stylish, comfortable, and secure environment for open-minded adults. Our discreet security team ensures the privacy and safety you deserve from the moment you arrive. Me
Club Chemistry
Fri, May 8, 2026
Madison, TN
Come party with us at Club Chemistry! ? We are a private, members-only upscale club, proudly woman-led and dedicated to creating a stylish, comfortable, and secure environment for open-minded adults. Our discreet security team ensures the privacy and safety you deserve from the moment you arrive. Me
Club Chemistry
Thu, May 7, 2026
Madison, TN
Come party with us at Club Chemistry! ? We are a private, members-only upscale club, proudly woman-led and dedicated to creating a stylish, comfortable, and secure environment for open-minded adults. Our discreet security team ensures the privacy and safety you deserve from the moment you arrive. Me
Club Giggity
Fri, Apr 10, 2026
Quakertown, PA
Special Event Get your special socks out nerds, April 10-11, we are pleased to present The Talk Nerdy To Me Weekend Takeover in Quakertown, PA
A full weekend hotel takeover dedicated to all things nerdy, flirty & gaming, featuring an entire floor dedicated to a sexy version of the classic Candyl
Club Giggity
Thu, Apr 2, 2026
York, PA
Ok Central PA, your Thursday nights are about to get a lot more fun. Thursday April 2nd we are back and are bringing an all new M&G/Mixer to York, PA!We are pleased to present the Thirsty Thursday M&G at Fenders Bar located in the Wyndham Garden York. Come get a peak at our amazing venue for Club Gi
Club Giggity
Thu, May 7, 2026
York, PA
Ok Central PA, your Thursday nights are about to get a lot more fun. Thursday May 3rd we are back and are bringing an all new M&G/Mixer to York, PA! We are pleased to present the Thirsty Thursday M&G at Fenders Bar located in the Wyndham Garden York. Come get a peak at our amazing venue for Club Gig
Club Kink Jacksonville
Wed, Apr 1, 2026
Jacksonville, FL
Jacksonville Lifestyle - Club Kink Jacksonville - Private Members Only Club Schedule your REQUIRED ORIENTATION now to be eligible for Membership! Open Every Wed- Fri- Sat, FREE VIP upgrade for all Members on Wednesdays! WILD WEDNESDAY Step Into Your Fantasy YOUR VIBE ! Social Area Serendipity Lounge
Club Kink Jacksonville
Fri, May 8, 2026
Jacksonville, FL
Jacksonville Lifestyle - Club Kink Jacksonville - Private Members Only Club Apply for Membership After you complete REQUIRED ORIENTATION Open Every Wed- Fri- Sat Club Kink Jax Fun Friday Night Lounge Step Into Your Fantasy YOUR VIBE! DRESS-UP Lounge Area 7pm-2am LIFESTYLE SPEED DATING SOCIAL 9pm $5
Club Kink Jacksonville
Wed, May 6, 2026
Jacksonville, FL
Jacksonville Lifestyle - Club Kink Jacksonville - Private Members Only Club Schedule your REQUIRED ORIENTATION now to be eligible for Membership! Open Every Wed- Fri- Sat, FREE VIP upgrade for all Members on Wednesdays! WILD WEDNESDAY Step Into Your Fantasy YOUR VIBE ! Social Area Serendipity Lounge
Club Labyrinth
Fri, May 8, 2026
New York, NY
LABYRINTH IS OPEN EVERY FRIDAY!! - 9PM to 4AM NOW OPEN WEDNESDAY THRU SATURDAY EVERY WEEK. RSVP VIA [email protected] AND MENTION SLS IN YOUR MESSAGE PLEASE VISIT OUR WEBSITE FOR MORE DETAILS ON CHANGES TO THIS EVENT MIDTOWN LOCATION!! CONVENIENTLY LOCATED NEAR GRAND CENTRAL / HERALD SQUARE / U
Club Labyrinth
Thu, May 7, 2026
New York, NY
LABYRINTH IS OPEN EVERY THURSDAY!! - 9PM to 3AM NOW OPEN WEDNESDAY THRU SATURDAY EVERY WEEK. RSVP VIA [email protected] AND MENTION SLS IN YOUR MESSAGE MIDTOWN LOCATION!! CONVENIENTLY LOCATED NEAR GRAND CENTRAL / HERALD SQUARE / UNION SQUARE. LOOK FORWARD TO SEEING YOU ALL THERE! EASY PARKING I
Club Labyrinth
CLUB LABYRINTH * ANYTHING GOES WEDNESDAY * MIDTOWN LOCATION * Couples, Single Men & Single Women
Wed, May 6, 2026
New York, NY
LABYRINTH IS OPEN EVERY WEDNESDAY!! - 9PM to 2AM NOW OPEN WEDNESDAY THRU SATURDAY EVERY WEEK. RSVP VIA [email protected] AND MENTION SLS IN YOUR MESSAGE PLEASE VISIT OUR WEBSITE FOR MORE DETAILS ON CHANGES TO THIS EVENT MIDTOWN LOCATION!! CONVENIENTLY LOCATED NEAR GRAND CENTRAL / HERALD SQUARE
Club Privata
Thu, Apr 2, 2026
Portland, OR
New to Club Privata or the lifestyle? Always wanted to check out Club Privata but hesitated? Newbie's Night is the perfect and most affordable way to see the venue and get connected. There is no membership required for Newbie's Night but dress code is strictly enforced. Please review our website, in
Club Privata
Fri, May 8, 2026
Portland, OR
We all love Stilettos & Stockings because nothing shows off a pair of legs better! Stilettos & Stockings is your chance to showcase your sexiest fishnets, thigh-highs, stockings, or garter. It's your night to turn heads, own the room, and make those legs shine!.
Club Privata
Thu, May 7, 2026
Portland, OR
New to Club Privata or the lifestyle? Always wanted to check out Club Privata but hesitated? Newbie's Night is the perfect and most affordable way to see the venue and get connected. There is no membership required for Newbie's Night but dress code is strictly enforced. Please review our website, in
Colette Houston
Fri, May 8, 2026
Houston, TX
Hot Wife Fridays@ colette Houston Doors open at 9pm *Check out membership details on our website or just ask at the door colette Houston 1319 Cypress Creek Pkwy (FM1960 W) Suite 190, Houston, TX 77090 281.781.7221 http://coletteclubs.com/ [email protected]
Colette Houston
Thu, May 7, 2026
Houston, TX
Latin Night @ colette Houston Doors open at 9pm You can request anything and we will try to play it or music of that genre. * Check out membership details on our website or just ask at the door colette Houston 1319 Cypress Creek Pkwy (FM1960 W) Suite 190, Houston, TX 77090 281.781.7221 http://colett
Colette Houston
Wed, May 6, 2026
Houston, TX
Back to the 80s & Newbie Night @ colette Houston Doors open at 9pm New to our world? Come check out what colette has to offer! *Check out membership details on our website or just ask at the door colette Houston 1319 Cypress Creek Pkwy (FM1960 W) Suite 190, Houston, TX 77090 281.781.7221 http://cole
Colette New Orleans
Thu, May 7, 2026
Houston, TX
From $10
9 PM - 2 AM Every Thursday, ignite your soul with the infectious rhythms of Latin Nights! We will be
Colette New Orleans
Thu, May 7, 2026
New Orleans, LA
From $10
9 PM - 2 AM New to our world? Come check out what colette has to offer.FREE one-night membership for
Colette New Orleans
Wed, May 6, 2026
New Orleans, LA
Newbie Night @ colette NOLA Doors open at 9pm New to our world? Come check out what colette has to offer! *Check out membership details on our website or just ask at the door colette NOLA 822 Gravier Street New Orleans, LA 70112 (504) 588-1517 http://coletteclubs.com/
Colette San Antonio
Sat, May 9, 2026
San Antonio, TX
From $20
Join us at colette tonight as we celebrate our women by showing off and sharing our hot wives. PLUS...attend on ANY Friday and receive a FREE PASS for the next Saturday! These passes can not be used for special events. This promotion is good for couples only. Entry Fees: Couples: $70 | Single Ladies
Colette San Antonio
Fri, May 8, 2026
San Antonio, TX
From $10
First time visiting colette? Membership is included! Come check out what colette has to offer. FREE one-night membership included with the price of the door fee for new couples only. **To take advantage of the Newbie Night special, new members must purchase their ticket in person and complete a memb
Colette San Antonio
Thu, May 7, 2026
San Antonio, TX
Newbie Night @ colette San Antonio Doors open at 9pm * Check out membership details on our website or just ask at the door colette San Antonio 11431 Perrin Beitel San Antonio, TX 78217
Eyz Wide Shut
Thu, Apr 2, 2026
Tampa, FL
6pm-2am $3 Wells until 9pm Nightclub - 6pm - 2am Free Tour of Playrooms Nightly @ 8 pm Playrooms - 9pm - 1am Full Access INCLUDES FREE USE OF 10 PRIVATE, 2 GROUP ROOM, 1 LARGE DUNGEON AND 1 SMALL DUNGEON. We welcome swingers, exhibitionists, voyeurs, fetishists and lovers of RED HOT SEX! ~ Full Liqu
Eyz Wide Shut
Fri, May 8, 2026
Tampa, FL
7pm-5am $3 Wells until 9pm Nightclub - 7pm - 3am Free Tour of Playrooms Nightly @ 9:30pm Playrooms - 11pm - 5am Full Access INCLUDES FREE USE OF 10 PRIVATE, 2 GROUP ROOM, 1 LARGE DUNGEON AND 1 SMALL DUNGEON. We welcome swingers, exhibitionists, voyeurs, fetishists and lovers of RED HOT SEX! ~ Full L
Eyz Wide Shut
Thu, May 7, 2026
Tampa, FL
6pm-2am $3 Wells until 9pm Nightclub - 6pm - 2am Free Tour of Playrooms Nightly @ 8 pm Playrooms - 9pm - 1am Full Access INCLUDES FREE USE OF 10 PRIVATE, 2 GROUP ROOM, 1 LARGE DUNGEON AND 1 SMALL DUNGEON. We welcome swingers, exhibitionists, voyeurs, fetishists and lovers of RED HOT SEX! ~ Full Liqu
Madame’s Goth Birthday Meet and Greet
Wed, May 6, 2026
Phoenix, AZ
Madame’s Goth Birthday Meet and Greet Wednesday, May 6th Stacey’s at Melrose on 7th! No Cover! Event starts at 9:00! Open to Everyone! New Folks Come and Get Vetted! Check-in with Madame on the Back Patio! Yes, it’s my Actual Birthday and It’s Goth Night at Stacey’s…So let’s do this! Featuring Goth,
Oasis Aqualounge
Fri, May 8, 2026
Toronto, Ontario
Women and couples are welcome to enjoy a frisky Friday visit at Oasis Aqualounge. Wear your favourite outfit or lingerie, or go as bare as you dare in our clothing-optional venue. At 9:00 pm, in the Oasis Ballroom, couples can experience a sensual massage room, with complimentary massage lotion and
Oasis Aqualounge
Thu, May 7, 2026
Toronto, Ontario
Do you love to adore fabulous feet encased in sexy shoes? Do you crave sensual massages and foot worship? Tonight, at 10:00 pm, we bring foot lovers together for an evening to indulge your fantasies while exploring the erotic foot fetishes. Wear your hottest heels, sandals, or favorite footwear and
Oasis Aqualounge
Wed, May 6, 2026
Toronto, Ontario
Today, solos and couples are welcome at Oasis Aqualounge from 1:00 pm-3:00 am. Your admission provides complimentary locker and towel use, in and out privileges, and use of all spa amenities. Embrace our liberating, clothing-optional environment within a non-judgmental and erotic atmosphere. At 6:00
Secret Pleasures
Wed, Apr 1, 2026
Emmaus, PA
Secret Pleasures is located at The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe at 422 Chestnut St, Emmaus, PA 18049. It actually says The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe on the door. Party starts at 12pm and ends at 3pm. See our website for more details: www.secretpleasures.club All guests must be on a guest list, so e
Secret Pleasures
Fri, May 8, 2026
Emmaus, PA
Secret Pleasures is located at The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe at 422 Chestnut St, Emmaus, PA 18049 Party starts at 9pm and ends at 3am. See our website for more details: www.secretpleasures.club All guests must be on a guest list somewhere, so either click Attend Event below or Free SLS members can
Secret Pleasures
Thu, May 7, 2026
Emmaus, PA
4 hour party geared to ladies looking to fulfill their fantasies. Secret Pleasures is located at The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe at 422 Chestnut St, Emmaus, PA 18049. It actually says The Back Door of the Wi Fi Cafe on the door. Party starts at 7pm and ends at 11pm. See our website for more details:
Secrets Hideaway
Sun, Mar 29, 2026
Kissimmee, FL
Secrets Hideaway Presents: “Sunday Pool Party” Every Sunday 10am-7pm Sundays have never been more liberating! Join us every Sunday from 10 am to 5 pm for the ultimate relaxation and rejuvenation at Secrets Hideaway's Sunday Pool Party. Whether you're extending the weekend fun with Sunday Funday or w
Secrets Hideaway
Fri, May 8, 2026
Kissimmee, FL
Secrets Hideaway Presents: “Friday Pool Party”Every Friday 10am-5pmKick off your weekend in style at the Friday Pool Party, an enticing affair hosted every Friday from 10 am to 5 pm at Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa. Immerse yourself in the ultimate daytime indulgence as you join Orlando's most e
Secrets Hideaway
Thu, May 7, 2026
Kissimmee, FL
Secrets Hideaway™ Presents:“Meet & Greet Newbie Night"Every Thursday at Secrets Hideaway™Every Thursday night, Secrets Hideaway invites you to dive into a world of exciting possibilities at our Meet & Greet Newbie Night. If you're new to the lifestyle or simply looking to expand your circle
Shadows
Fri, May 8, 2026
Hyattsville, MD
Midnight Safari Friday , May 8th Hours: 9:00 PM. - 5:00 AM Membership to Shadows is required. Membership fee is not included with the entry cost. Membership is Required An exotic night where mystery meets elegance—Midnight Safari invites you to explore wild vibes, smooth energy, and unforgettable mo
Shadows
Thu, May 7, 2026
Hyattsville, MD
Sharing is Caring Thursday , May 7th Hours: 9:00 PM. - 3:00 AM Membership to Shadows is required. Membership fee is not included with the entry cost. Membership is Required Join us for Sharing Is Caring party, where couples and singles embrace a sexy, playful vibe. Flirty energy, confident connectio
Shadows
Wed, May 6, 2026
Hyattsville, MD
Blush After Dark Hosted By Coach Mocha Wednesday , May 6th Hours: 9:00 PM. - 3:00 AM Membership to Shadows is required. Membership fee is not included with the entry cost. Membership is Required Blush After Dark, hosted by Coach Mocha, is where elegance meets irresistible late-night energy. Soft ton
sinnersparadise
Fri, May 8, 2026
Philadelphia, PA
Description Tonight we celebrate our BBWs,where confidence is king and their curves steal the spotlight. Beautiful women we bow to you tonight. This is your night you take control and get what and who you want!! Shots will be free for you tonight all night! We cater to you tonight, so be prepared to
sinnersparadise
Thu, May 7, 2026
Philadelphia, PA
Description If you haven't been here on a Thursday night you're missing out!! No guess work, no hoping, no hunting, no leaving disappointed. This is the night that's guaranteed, it's like death and taxes, plan to CUM RSVP NOW and be here!!! Event details: Tonight, the Fun is GUARANTEED, RSVP now don
sinnersparadise
Wed, May 6, 2026
Philadelphia, PA
Description Karaoke is back at Sinners Paradise, when you arrive you will pick a song that you're going to sing and then the fun begins. Prepare yourself for an elevated after-hours experience where seductive energy, refined decadence, and unforgettable performances meet on the mainstage under low l
THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC
Sun, Mar 29, 2026
New York, NY
THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC PRESENTS: SUNDAY MARCH 29TH 2026 SPICY SWINGER SUNDAYS [SEXY SPRING EDITION] COME EARLY LEAVE HAPPY THE ULTIMATE SUNDAY NIGHT PLAY PARTY WINTER 2026 HAS NEVER BEEN HOTTER 800PM-200AM COUPLES & SINGLES WELCOME RELEASE YOUR INHIBITIONS EXPLORE YOUR FANTASIES MILD TO WILD BYOB FREE
THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC
Fri, May 8, 2026
New York, NY
THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC PRESENTS: FRIDAY MAY 8TH 2026 FREAKY SWINGER FRIDAYS [MILD TO WILD EDITION] COME GET YOUR FRIDAY NIGHT FREAK ON COUPLES & SINGLES PLAYFEST 900PM-400AM COUPLES & SINGLES WELCOME CATERING TO SWINGERS FROM ALL OVER THE TRI-STATE AREA RELEASE YOUR INHIBITIONS EXPLORE YOUR FANTASIES
THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC
Wed, May 6, 2026
New York, NY
THE DIAMOND CLUB NYC PRESENTS: WEDNESDAY MAY 6TH 2026 TEMPTATION WEDNESDAYS [SEXY HUMP NIGHT DEBAUCHERY EDITION] A MIDWEEK SOIREE & PLAY ALL NEW WEDNESDAY NIGHT PLAY PARTY FOR THE SPRING 2026 COME GIVE IN TO YOUR SEXUAL TEMPTATION CASUAL FALL ATTIRE LADIES: DRESS SEXY MEN: CASUAL BUT NEAT 900PM-300A
The Florida Treehouse
Fri, Apr 3, 2026
Lakeland, FL
SEXploration through movement and music! Lose yourself in the music & enjoy an electrifying night of rhythm, dance, and community. Join us for this celebration of music and life where guests express themselves through dance and creative fashion! Experience an evening where electronic music meets an
The Florida Treehouse
Fri, May 8, 2026
Lakeland, FL
Rainbow nights are specifically focused on meeting and playing with our rainbow friends, partners, and allies. No specifications on relationship, gender, kink, or sexual identity. Whether you want to connect with your rainbow friends, gender bend, or explore a new facet of your sexuality - this is y
The Florida Treehouse
Sun, May 3, 2026
Lakeland, FL
Celebrate Cinco de Mayo early at our frisky fiesta. We're launching summer with the first pool party of the season! Let's enjoy the warm weather & hang out in the pool. Nacho average pool party. Friends are welcome to bring their beach chairs to sun their buns in the backyard. ~ ATTIRE: Show off you
The Power Exchange
Fri, May 8, 2026
San Francisco, CA
FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS What happens next is between friends. Some friendships come with perks. Maybe you’ve talked about it. Maybe you haven’t. Maybe it’s time to find out. Bring a friend. Bring your curiosity. Bring your appetite for something more. Whether you’re already entangled… or just flirting
The Power Exchange
Thu, May 7, 2026
San Francisco, CA
Step into Dark Desires, a night where temptation stirs and seduction begins after dark. This is your invitation to slip into the shadows, indulge your cravings, and explore the decadent mysteries of Power Exchange. On the 1st & 3rd Thursdays of every month, the doors open to a world where inhibition
The Power Exchange
Wed, May 6, 2026
San Francisco, CA
Wednesday nights just got wicked. Wicked Wednesday is your midweek excuse to slip out of routine and into something far more tempting. All three floors are open, the vibe is relaxed, and the energy builds as the night goes on. Come curious, come playful, or come just to watch — Wednesdays are about