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Tagged: Rules & Boundaries

Establishing and maintaining couple rules within the swinging lifestyle.

Articles tagged Rules & Boundaries

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Your First Swingers Threesome: 5 Ways to Prepare

Planning your first threesome? Five practical tips on finding the right third, setting boundaries, and making the experience work for everyone involved.

Threesomes
4 min read · May 22, 2018
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Swinging For Dummies - How To Get Started in the Lifestyle

New to swinging? Ten practical tips cover communication, consent, etiquette, and how to use Swing.com to find a first event that matches your comfort level.

Swinger Lifestyle
4 min read · Jan 31, 2018
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What Couples Should Know Before Exploring D/s Dynamics

A dominant/submissive dynamic is a shared responsibility. The consent framework, pre-scene negotiation, aftercare, and what makes D/s relationships work.

BDSM
5 min read · Jul 12, 2017
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Handling Jealousy in Couple Swapping

Jealousy in couple swapping is normal and manageable. Learn communication strategies, boundary-setting, and how to turn jealousy into deeper connection.

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4 min read · Jun 2, 2017
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Pre-Negotiating Rules and Boundaries in the Lifestyle

A structural guide for couples pre-negotiating lifestyle agreements: rules versus limits, the categories worth naming ahead of time, and mutual-enthusiasm.

Swinger Couple
3 min read · May 22, 2017
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What Swinging Can and Cannot Do for Your Relationship

Some couples report real relational benefits from the lifestyle. An honest look at what those are, and what swinging cannot do, including fix a struggling bond.

Swinger Lifestyle
4 min read · Mar 24, 2017
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The Hotwifing Guide: What It Is and How to Build It Your Way

Hotwifing is one of non-monogamy's most misrepresented dynamics. This guide centers the hotwife's agency, covers variants, and addresses safer-sex essentials.

Hotwifing
7 min read · Dec 27, 2016
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Threesome with Your Girlfriend: 3 Keys to Pull It Off

Three factors for a successful threesome: mutual enthusiasm, honest rules, and thoughtful leadership. Consent from everyone involved is non-negotiable.

Threesomes
5 min read · Dec 2, 2016
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3 Settings Hotwife Couples Choose for Outside Encounters

Where a hotwife encounter happens shapes both partners' experience. Here are the three settings most couples consider, with the real tradeoffs of each.

Hotwifing
5 min read · Aug 25, 2016
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4 Characteristics That Define A Swinger Relationship

Healthy swinger relationships share four traits: honest communication, negotiated boundaries, community belonging, and strong satisfaction levels.

Swinger Couple
5 min read · Aug 16, 2016
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What Open Relationships Actually Are

A grounded look at what an open relationship actually is, how it differs from swinging and polyamory, and the communication work that makes it function.

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5 min read · Jul 12, 2016
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What Research Says About Swinger Couples and Divorce

An honest look at what peer-reviewed research establishes about longevity in swinger couples, and why communication skills are what the evidence points to.

Swinger Couple
4 min read · Jul 6, 2016
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