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Tagged: Etiquette

Social norms, manners, and unwritten rules of the swinger community.

Articles tagged Etiquette

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Grocery Shopping With a Lifestyle-Minded Eye: Food Innuendo

A playful walk through the grocery store with a lifestyle-curious eye — because once you see the double entendres in the snack aisle, you cannot unsee them.

Swinger Lifestyle
4 min read · Feb 15, 2012
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Newly Married and Curious About the Lifestyle? Start Here

For newlyweds wondering whether the swinger lifestyle fits their first year of marriage: an honest self-assessment covering timing and communication baseline.

Swinger Lifestyle
6 min read · Feb 9, 2012
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Hosting a Lifestyle Party: Consent-First Theme Ideas

A host-POV guide to planning a lifestyle house party that works: consent first, unambiguous etiquette, theme ideas year-round, no one has to play as a rule.

Swinger Clubs
4 min read · Jan 3, 2012
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Swinger Club Etiquette: Consent, Dress, and Club Nights

What actually governs swinger club behavior — consent norms, dress codes, photo policies, single-member admission, and the social skills that make a good night.

Swinger Clubs
7 min read · Dec 13, 2011
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How the Lifestyle Community Approaches the Holidays

From Halloween theme nights to New Year's Eve events and chosen-family Thanksgivings, lifestyle couples have built rich seasonal traditions — an inclusive look.

Swinger Lifestyle
5 min read · Dec 2, 2011
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Swinger Culture in 2026: A Snapshot of Community Norms

An editorial look at the values, norms, and social culture that define the swinger and CNM community in 2026 — consent-first, inclusive, and evolving.

Swinger Lifestyle
5 min read · Nov 28, 2011
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Traveling With Adult Toys: A Lifestyle Traveler's Guide

Lifestyle travelers navigate TSA, customs, and hotel logistics with adult toys regularly. Here is a practical guide to doing it without stress or incident.

Swinger Lifestyle
4 min read · Oct 25, 2011
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Why Single Men Contact Lifestyle Couples: Both Sides

A grounded look at why single men reach out to couples in the lifestyle, what couples need to know about vetting, and how single men can earn genuine respect.

Swinging Single
5 min read · Aug 12, 2011
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Dressing for Lifestyle Clubs: A First-Visit Guide

An evergreen guide to dress codes, themed-party styling, and the unwritten etiquette of what to wear to a lifestyle club: calm, comfort-first, non-prescriptive.

Swinger Lifestyle
3 min read · Aug 11, 2011
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How Lifestyle Members Recognize Each Other in Public

Subtle signals, shared language, and community cues help lifestyle members identify each other in public without advertising anything to the outside world.

Swinger CoupleSwinger Lifestyle
4 min read · Jul 8, 2011
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The San Bernardino and Inland Empire Lifestyle Landscape

A regional orientation for couples exploring the lifestyle in San Bernardino and the broader Inland Empire: what the scene looks like and why sources matter.

California Swingers
3 min read · Jul 2, 2011
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Swinging Tips for Single Men

So many single males wrote in asking me to write a blog. I need to clarify something upfront, I got some polite emails and I received several hate emails on why

HotwifingSwinger LifestyleSwinging Single
6 min read · Jun 13, 2011
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